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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): i agree with i dont lie they made it very clear for me and im in the same position
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reader, Delila +, writes (11 October 2005):
Neither, follow your intuition!
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (11 October 2005):
Think about what bad things and good things could come out of it? You would find some one else and hope for the best, and the longer you stay with this person the harder it will be to break up with them. Ask them how they feel, and is it worth staying together.
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reader, I Dont Lie +, writes (11 October 2005):
 You have to realise that at the end of the day, whatever choice you make wont be right neither wrong. Its what you make of it. I mean think about this, who will ever know that if a choice was made, that the other one wouldnt have turned out fine if you were to have picked it?!! Thats why you will have to weigh all factors and see if its your mind or heart that you want to follow. For example, if both you and him had an argument because of another girl, you might want to consider whether you will be able to forgive him for what he has done, and most importantly, whether you will be able to trust him ever again. If you can, then follow your heart and stay with him, if not, then your mind. But if he's just plain abusive in the relationship, I would suggest you follow your mind. Do you see what Im getting at here? It all depends on the severity of damage that has occured and whether you STILL want it to work or not!! Good luck and I hope you will be happy with whatever choice you make.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2005): This is a very hard one. I have just gone through the same thing and have decided to follow my heart. All you can do is choose!
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reader, AuntieChrissy +, writes (10 October 2005):
If you're mind can honestly tell you that staying in a relationship will hurt you, listen to it, and get out of there.
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