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writes: So I am living overseas and have been here 1 and a half years. I met my boyfriend here and we dated for over 1 year. He left last weekend because he had to go back to the States (army). Hence, we broke up. I don't know HOW to get over someone that I don't want to. We didn't break up because we didn't like each other. We broke up because of life circumstances. I recently told him that I cannot talk to him anymore, it was too hard. But I don't have many friends here anymore and everything here reminds me of him. I am not going home for 7 more months. How do I get through these next few months by myself when everything here reminds me of him? :( Plus, how do I get over someone when the breakup wasnt because we didnt LOVE each other, but because life decided to come in and change it all? Thanks.
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reader, BitterSweet04 +, writes (3 October 2005):
I totally know how you feel. My bf will be leaving in 2months and we will have to break-up. I will have to get over him, but we will still care for eachother. What comforts me is the fact that everything happens for a reason. Maybe it is meant to be for you two and one day your paths will cross again. Don't completely forget about him, but put him on the back burner for now. In the mean time try to focus on other things, like friends and yourself. I also want to mention that the fact that everything reminds you of him is the same thing that is happening to me. You feel so helpless. I hate that feeling. Maybe it will help you feel better to know that your not the only one that is going through this. It makes me feel better to know I'm not alone. :-) Good luck
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reader, missdee +, writes (1 October 2005):
Sometimes things happen to us and we wonder why? If it is wanted so badly why can't it just be easy? Truth is when its hard its not very likely it is meant to be, most things are difficult enough in life without "life circumstances" making it almost impossible.
Take time to get over the breakup, since this oviously wasn't meant to be. Get out with your friends, get him off your mind. The sooner do you can move on with your life and find someone new. Wish you the Best!
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