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Archived questions from: November, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

After telling me she "needs space", my girlfriend wants me to hang in there and wait for her!

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 1154 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Please help with this confusion. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now and she just recently moved out because she needed some time and space to take a break. She works three to ten days a month and I have a normal M-F, 8-5 type job, and ...

Does my gf have feelings for my best friend in prison? How do I know for sure what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6956 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Dear Cupid, My ex and I dated for about 4 years but about a month ago she broke up with me because I accused her several times of having feelings for my best friend who is currently incarcerated in a Illinois State Prison. I didn't want to o...

We had so much fun but then he said he didn't want to be with me...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I was with a guy for just over 2 months, we had the most amazing time together! I knew he felt the same and we laughed, joked, cuddles and kissed whenever we saw eachother. He told me he was falling for me, his parents loved and and his friends ...

How do I get over this break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - I'm trying to get my head around being dumped. My now ex boyfriend and i were together for quite a few months and i loved him inside out. I knew he had problems from the start with alchol as i had heard from his friends about last christmas him ...

Does she really care enough to want me back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - I had a relationship with this girl,she told me one day,its over and i said "cool" even though i was hurt inside.She dated another guy but she has left her recenlty.she is now sending sms's and emails telling me she still cares.i realy still love ...

How do I get my ex-girlfriend to understand that we have a future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (M) - Hi. My X-Girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly three years. I was her first boyfriend and she was my second. Our relationship, as it has started when we were rather young (16) has seen both of us change considerably. Over the years, ...

We broke up but can we be together again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6948 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - About 8 years ago, the father of my youngest son decided that 'there was no future for us together', this was after a 7 year relationship. Since then he has had some serious medical issues that he has been dealing with and i think has now resolved. ...

How do I get back with him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - Im confused. My boyfriend of one year and i recently split. There was no real reason why we broke up - it was more of a spare of the moment decision out of anger over a stupid fight. Trouble is, now i deeply regret breaking up with him. We still see ...

He's 27, he's immature-we break up but he keeps contacting me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6962 days ago

29 November 2005 (F) - We broke up 2 months ago. It only took me 4 days of ignoring him for him to miss me and come back.This is the 4th time we had broken up. He always dumps me because we argue about stupid things because we are both stubborn. But the real reason is ...

How do I know if my relationship is over?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - How do I know if my relationship is really over? Should I just give up?...

Can a book make a girl dump a boy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - my girlfriend has just bought a book called is he realy just that into you she told me that 6 of her girlfriends had red it and they all broke up with their boyfriends now i am sceard she will leave me how can a book do this for all these girls to ...

Scared to hear his verdict about our relationship. Will he want to break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - My boyfriend has "come back" from his time of space, he has sent me a message asking to call him, as we have a lot of things to talk about. I have feeling THAT THIS IS IT. He is breaking up with me, he always signed of his messages reading i love ...

How do I remain faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6934 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - I need help. My fiance just found out about me having an affair and now everything is off. She had every right to break up with me but I want to change. I've never had an affair before and I was dedicated to her for several years without ever ...

I poured my heart out - did I blow it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6946 days ago

28 November 2005 (M) - Everywhere I read it says not to let your ex-girlfriend know how you feel and that you still care. But what do I do if already told her everything and still want her back? Is it to late? Thanks...

We broke up and it's nearly impossible to get over him. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

28 November 2005 (F) - My past relationships I have found it very easy to get over a guy and move on. My last boyfriend of two years ended about 2 months ago. Ive been thru every emotion possible! It seems nearly impossible to get over him. I don't want to get over ...

Please help! He dumped me, found another girlfriend...now he wants back in my life again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6964 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Please Help me. Me and boyfriend broke up 2 mounths ago. And then after he dumped me he found a new girlfriend. I was heartbroken, about 2 weeks ago i realized I have to move on. Then just yesterday he said he loves me again, but i don't know wha...

He has a girlfriend but wants me...what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - Please Help. I'm 14 and about 2 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. We hardly ever saw each other. When we broke up I was heart broken, but about a week ago I realized I had to move on, seeing as he had gone out and found himself a girlfrie...

Help! My ex boyfriend is making my life a living hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6965 days ago

26 November 2005 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend and he is trying to make life a living hell for me. He bought me a phone and now, he's taken it back. I want to forget about him totally cos i have the feeling I don't love him anymore. What should I do?...

I broke up with him because we argued so much. Now I miss him, so do we get back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6966 days ago

25 November 2005 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend about a week ago, as we kept having arguments about me not going to visit him enough. i am currently at university and only come home on weekends (he lives in my town)and during this time i try to see my family friends ...

He was the light of my life, but then he switched off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6967 days ago

24 November 2005 (M) - Hey, I'm an 18 yr old gay and in February of this year I thought that I had found the love of my life. We really clicked and were stuck to each other like glue. We finally got together but a week later I had to go on holiday. When I got back he ...

He led me on for five years, talking about a wedding that could never happen...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6963 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been dating a guy for 5 years. We started on when I was 26 and I'm 31 yrs now. He is my first and only boyfriend. He told me me he wanted us married in November this year and that he really means it. I asked him so many times ...

Met a great guy but my ex wants me back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6967 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - Hello Cupid, Ok. My boyfriend split with me a couple of months ago. I found out he snogged another girl whilst on a stag do and he said he had been unsure of his feelings for me for about a year. He then went on to meet up with the girl he snog...

I can't believe that all those phone calls were just to "a friend"!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6969 days ago

23 November 2005 (F) - I've been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. We've had our ups and downs, but for the most part, we were so happy together. Towards the end of our relationship we get in a huge fight of something small of course. I tell him...fine....just move ...

Can I get my ex back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6968 days ago

22 November 2005 (M) - I was in love with a woman and I was going to marry her. We had a really stressful year and I was very busy at work. This other woman from work was flirting with me and things went further than they should have done. I felt guilty and left the love ...

How can I regain his trust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6713 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I have cheated on my boyfriend in the past but so has he!i've been going out with him for 1 year and 4 months and we've split up, seen other people and then got back with each other cos we really loved each other!He's lost all trust in me now and ...

Rollercoaster relationship but should we be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6970 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Me and this guy have been friends for five years and for the bulk of that time he has told me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me, etc. Before I left for college he came over my house and told me that he was in love with me. I didn't ...

This hurts so much...do I wait or move on from him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6970 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I've been reading about other peoples problems and a few of those things relate to me. I recently was dumped, by the person with whom, "I Thought" id spend the rest of my life with. We were made for each other, and somewhere, somehow, i still ...

When is it the right time to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6967 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - I split from my boyfriend of 3 years about 6 months ago and since we have met up and have been talking to each other. However a couple of weeks ago I told him that we should be just friends for definite, clean slate and everything. Since then I ...

I want to get over my ex. It's been two years!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6813 days ago

21 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I need to have some advice on how you get over someone. Have poeple out there had experiences of being really into someone and then it all turning to Sh*t and then not being able to get over them? I have been trying to get over my guy for TWO ...

I love her and don't want to hurt her, but I can't find a way to make it work.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6654 days ago

21 November 2005 (M) - I've been dating a great girl for 1.5 years. The relationship has been somewhat long distance (about 2-3 hours driving one-way). She's only my second girlfriend, and the first girl I've been intimate with. Part of me wants to date other girls...

He said he just needed time, so why did he suddenly change his mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6971 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - My boyfriend had broken up with me after I was "walking all over him". Then told me he wanted to get back together, but needed time to get his life back on track. I waited for him, then he changed his mind after a month. My friends say he probably ...

My boyfriend doesn't follow through with his promises!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6971 days ago

20 November 2005 (F) - I am in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend for 2 months tells me he'll do things and he doesn't do them. Is he trying to tell me he doesn't want to be in this relationship any longer?...

Is this just a nice way to dump someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6442 days ago

18 November 2005 (F) - What the heck does this mean? It seemed as though things were going really well the best it's been, then this?!? "It was fun and I enjoyed our time together. As I said earlier I thought the idea of taking a step back was a good one. Things wer...

I was dumped because I don't have enough sexual or emotional "experience"!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6968 days ago

17 November 2005 (M) - I have been dumped because my partner was my first person that I got involved with, and slept with. Now he tells me that I have no previous relationships, sexually and emotionally. I was told that I have nothing to rate this relationship on. I'm 22...

I want to break up, but how do I do it and avoid the emotional blackmail?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6975 days ago

16 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years. I no longer love him and want to leave him, but he emotionally blackmails me with suicide. How do i tell him I'm leaving and how to end our relationship? I've had enough. All I want is to be on my own and brin...

I've realised I don't want to marry my fiance. What do I say to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - How can I break up with my fiance? We're both 50, he's somewhat old-fashioned, conservative, and intolerant. My 3 teens annoy him (as most teens do) and they aren't that crazy about him. He's quite controlling, negative, and thinks highly of ...

He thinks the spark between us has cooled, but I know we're perfect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6975 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I've been with my guy for 2 years now, and the relationship has just turned long distance, he says he loves me and he still finds me attractive. We have absolutely no problem in the physical department as the spark is still totally there. It's just ...

At about the time he started having feelings for me, he decided it was time to "step back"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6973 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - I have been seeing/hanging out with this guy since september. I'm in my late twenties and he's in his early fourties. He has been hot and cold with me all along. Until the past couple of weeks something had changed and it seemed like he was ...

Our relationship was great. What hurt it was the distance!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6975 days ago

15 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I've recently split with my girlfriend of about 2 months. We got together just before I went to uni and I've been making regular trips home to see her. Last time I went home she told me she doesn't like me not being with her and couldn't ...

He wants some time apart, but he doesn't want to lose me, either...

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

15 November 2005 (F) - Hello, I have been hurting lately. I don't know how to cope with this and I don't know what to do. Well I was living with my boyfriend, but a few weeks ago he broke up with me. He says he needs his space. He said he has been hurting for a while. H...

I want to break up with my guy. The distance between us makes me dread visiting him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6971 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - This weekend, I am going to visit my long-distance boyfriend to tell him that it's not working for me and I want to end the relationship but still be friends. I love him but I'm not in love with him and I just can't deal with the distance thing. ...

He hasn't learned not to mess around with other girls, and now he wants a 3rd chance...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6977 days ago

14 November 2005 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for maybe about 1 month an a half but throughout the whole relationship it was nothing but him playing games with my head and us fighting all the time. It all started out in the beginning he cheated on me with on of my frien...

My boyfriend dumped me and said he didn't love me any more after he caught me in a lie...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6424 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - I lied to my boyfriend. He found out and he has dumped me because I lied. And to make things go from bad to worse he told me that he didn't love me any more and that he was in love with someone else and that he loved her and was going out wth her. I...

When my gf found out about the small lies, it made her start pulling away...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6954 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm in a two year relationship and I started it out with a couple of lies that really had no effect either way. Well I should say truth wouldn't have hurt! I'm also a recovering addict and at the point of our relationship I had two years cl...

I didn't do anything wrong. My girlfriend says she just doesn't feel the same...

This question has 52 answers - newest was posted 4051 days ago

13 November 2005 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't want me anymore. I didn't do anything bad. She just doesn't feel the same anymore. I'm having a hard time letting here go. In fact, I don't want to let go of her. It feels so hard for me. I really want to be with her. I just l...

The marriage is over, but my husband won't leave!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5352 days ago

13 November 2005 (F) - My husband won't leave. We have been together for ten years, only married for one. But since the wedding we have both changed. I want out of the marriage but he won't leave! We have two children: one is his and I have one from a previous relation...

Do you "stay together for the sake of the kids"?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6940 days ago

12 November 2005 (M) - Do women with children stay in their relationships for "the children's sake", no matter how unhappy they are personally, or do kids really matter in a woman's decision to eventually leave? Also, does having kids simply make a woman delay the ...

Why won't he let me get my things from his house? Does he secretly want me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6979 days ago

12 November 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, My ex-boyfriend of 2.5 years recently broke up with me because of his stressful job and me not being understanding. Anyways, he wouldn't answer my phone calls for a few days after, and then I would get so sad that I would call him f...

He doesn't want to break up, but suddenly he doesn't love me, either...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - When I step outside myself, the answers to my confusions seem so simple but my heart wants to complicate it. I've been dating this guy, let's call him Jordan, for almost 8mths now. He's 36, I'm 27. I've known him a year and a half. I met him thro...

First he broke up with me, then he was friendly. I don't know what to do anymore...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6980 days ago

10 November 2005 (F) - I met this guy when I was in my first year of university (I was 18 and he was 20). We hit it off right away and spent the entire year madly falling in love with each other. That summer I broke with him b/c I was having personal problems even though ...