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writes: My past relationships I have found it very easy to get over a guy and move on. My last boyfriend of two years ended about 2 months ago. Ive been thru every emotion possible! It seems nearly impossible to get over him. I don't want to get over him. I feel that he is the one. I've spoken to him probably about once a week and every time I talk to him I would cry and tell him how much I miss him. He seems to be not convinced that I will change my ways, but then at times he will say that he feels this time away from each other is good and possibly there is hope for us someday. I feel that it just makes us grow further apart. Then i will feel that he has moved on. Should I be calling him or will that just push him away? I'm really not sure what to do at this point.
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reader, bee +, writes (28 November 2005):
well you don't say what happened really. What do you mean 'change your ways'? It's hard to advise you on this really without knowing, BUT it is always true that absense makes the heart grow fonder. So if you want him to come to you (which he must, you cannot go to him and force him, you must give him that decision-making power) then don't call or contact him.You can't talk someone into a relationship and hard though it will be, you must risk losing him altogether by not contacting him in order to get him back in a way that's necessary to have a good relationship, i.e. because he wants to be there.If you really did do something wrong - make sure you've said you're deeply sorry and expressed how you feel about him. You may need time to prove you've changed but for now give him the space.Good luckx
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reader, Tim +, writes (28 November 2005):
 Move on and leave him alone, stop playing with people's feeling and stop repeating the same mistake again and again and try to be patient and stop being too emotional stop crying when you didn't care and broke up, wot makes you to not get over him, he was a bad person right? and not your type? and you broke up with him? and now you getting on his nerves.Try to learn a lil from your broken relationships and ask yourself when will i act like responsible honest life partner or lover or wife or whatever u wanna call youself and when will I stop hurting myself and others and let my heart being toys or a foot ball kicked by guys. Be strong girl and move on sweetie there are many nice guys out there for you to win your sweetheart and you fall for him, remember past is past try to move straight forward from now on and be honest with yourself, patient is what missing try to cool down dont act like fire and guns, and shoot at people without knowing the distance u have created between each otherGood lucky
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