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writes: I have cheated on my boyfriend in the past but so has he!i've been going out with him for 1 year and 4 months and we've split up, seen other people and then got back with each other cos we really loved each other!He's lost all trust in me now and does not believe a word i say even if i'm at home on me own he thinks i'm with another boy cos he says every1 fancies me!i love him so much and hearing him say 'i don't want anything to do with anymore, your a slag' really hurt me literally!however he got back with me because he loves me but does not trust ne at all and has told me!i love him woth all my heart and need him so much and would never do anything to hurt him ever ever again but i need to gain his trust back.i've told him it will take time but he starts getting mad over stupid things and finishes me but i always go running back when he rings me!Please Help!asap
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2006): ok look dont listen to them down there. your man is not using you and you can still love him. i am in the same postion you are only i didnt cheat on mine i told him he was my first bc i didnt want him to think i was a whore but than i finnally told him the truth that he wasnt and he lost all trust in me. and we started arguing worse everyday bc he never believed anyting i said so we took a break and got back together. and well he still didnt trust me so i had to do alot of time but finnally he trusted me again. i didnt have to do alot just i never lied to him or ever did anything to make him distrust me like say im doing one thing than do another. and if i said i was doing something with my friends and we changed our plans i always called and told him just so it would help him trust me again. and yea he always had someone watching me at schhol and stuff but it helped alot too bc he had proof i wasnt gonna mess with other guys or do anythign sneeky. so just dont listen to them bc yea he might not ever fully trust u again but it can work out if u make it. we hav and we happier than ever. and to think im only 17. so yea
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reader, innermind +, writes (22 November 2005):
do you even know what love is?love is trust, love is respect, love is acceptance. Love is what you bring to a relationship, not what you get out of it.This relationship is going nowhere. You are just kidding yourself that you love him when really you're just desperate.Take a good look at yourself. what have you learned about yourself from this relationship.what do you need to change? when you learn to love yourself ie trust, respect and accept yourself then maybe you'll have something worthwhile to bring to another relationship.
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reader, Tim +, writes (22 November 2005):
 Once u lost ur trust u can never gain it that is completely mission impossible I am so sorry i am a man and from my point of view. when he can not trust u no more he is using u from now and he will punish u as well one day till he finds somebody else and so on coz he can't offord to lose u either till he finds someone more suitable and honest than a cheater, u showed each other ur own weakeness, I hope u both learn from ur mistake and never play such games to hurt urself, I m so sorry u guys both cheated on each other so that is the result of ur cheat and u lost ur trust which u can never gain it , u may better off try another guy who doesn't know about ur cheating business and stuff and start fresh without pain.
I can never trust cheaters even if they beg me or say million times sorry, once they hurt and strike and bite even if they never do cheat again they lost trust that is natural and that is wot ur man thinks right now. you better move on and stop being used by those who doesn't trust u.
Good luck
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