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writes: I split from my boyfriend of 3 years about 6 months ago and since we have met up and have been talking to each other. However a couple of weeks ago I told him that we should be just friends for definite, clean slate and everything. Since then I have met someone else and have become quite close. I haven’t seen my ex because it’s been too upsetting that we can’t be together like it used to and I'm wondering how you tell when it’s the right time to move on. I thought I would have felt better after all this time but I do feel depressed and unsure about everything. Any words of wisdom?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2005): Breaking up is never an easy thing to do - is suggest you make your decision and keep to it, it sounds asif you still have some attatchment to your ex even thoug you know you need to move on, i suggest that you cut ties for a minimum time of a month then review how you feel. Moving staight into another relationship may be a comfort to you now but ask yourself wether you want this new relatinship for comfort or because you really want to be with this new guy.I truly feel for you having been in this position myself - a clean break was heart breaking but the only solution that would work, eventually the pain will go and you will move on from this but moving on from something you have decided to get away from when it is still there is harder than when it is not.Good luck!!!!!
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