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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): I guess you can say it is over when you feel happier when the other partner is not around you! If you feel like you give them everything yet get nothing in return, time to question do you really deserve to put up with it? if all you do is give to them but hardly ever seem to receive and when you do it is a huge effort on there behalf then this person does not deserve the love trust and friendship a real partner has to offer. Am I cynical ? Yes probably Talking from experience? most definately,a romantic who believes true love should last forever yep ! Asking myself the same question ? every day for too long just looking for the heart to finish it for my own good! Cos I Still Love her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): I guess if your so unhappy to be asking this then that might be your answer? If you were happy you would reach this question. Im in the same boat been with him 2 years, started with infidelity and since have never been able to trust him. Not sure if it's all in my mind but he always has an answer for everything. Makes me do crazy things and react in a way that i have lost my self respect. But still i love him and keep trying to work. He's the one calling the shots saying were together / not together ! How do I manage to get the strength to stay away. We split for 3 months in the summer and getting back together was the best feeling ever !
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2007): I am finding myself asking this same question. I have been in a three and a half year relationship (to the day). My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot and we both have issues that we need to deal with. However these are problems that we would have with anyone in any relationship. He has a very hard time expressing his love for me even when it means the most(like when we're fighting). On top of that this has made me very insecure. I want to put the effort into fixing it however, he doesn't act at all differnt. I feel that he needs his space to really evaluate what he wants in a serious relationship and find if I am really the person he wants to spend the rest of his life with. If it is ment to be we will come back to each other. It is all too hard to say because we have bought a house together and have dogs together and he truely all the family I have. If anyone can offer encouraging words or some advice I would appreciate it! RADZ
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reader, StarNews +, writes (27 December 2005):
 When he stops giving you his time. When you no longer feel complete with him. When you arent included in his future plans and celebrations. When you feel like an obstacle to his happiness. When you arent happy and feel that something is missing. When he stops calling you. When you start feeling like it is over, and that you should give up.
Remember this: If he makes you feel any less than who you are, he is not worth your time, effort, unhappiness or thoughts. He is selfish and self centered, making you miserable and draining you emotionally. He doesnt deserve you and you deserve to be happy...without him.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 How do I know if my relationship is really over? ASK HIM.
Should I just give up? IF HE SAYS YES...THEN GIVE UP.
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reader, Viper  +, writes (29 November 2005):
 HeyErm.. sorry same prob, I would suggest the signs he shows but you don't provide really enough source to let us give you a descent answer I'm afraid : (Viper
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reader, wishes +, writes (29 November 2005):
 We need more information in order to reply. Thanks!
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