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Archived questions from: April, 2005 (see latest in Breaking up category)

Breaking up: Help and advice

I know I wanted to break up, so why am I so sad now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 April 2005 (?) - I broke up with my boyfriend last night and for some reason althought I know it's what I wanted I am really sad and have cried. What can I do stop feeling like this and how do I stop him from not talking to me or being funny? ...

The new guy and I got together too soon & I still need to be single...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - I've just come out a 2 year serious relationship and have now met someone else and have been with them a few months now. I care about this person and am still friends with my ex-boyfriend. The problem is that I know I've made a mistake and rushed t...

We've been rowing. I don't know if I should break up with my boyfriend or not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6537 days ago

29 April 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I have been with my boyfriend for a year now and recently we have been arguing loads. Last night was where we ended it because of a huge row. We were pushing each other and shouting and he even spat in my face. I know everyone s...

I have to stay in touch with my ex for my son's sake. Did we do the right thing splitting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7177 days ago

27 April 2005 (?) - My son's father has a mental health problem and we have been having a lot of ups and downs. We decided to split after a three-year relationship, I want to know if we have made the right choice, as we have a child together and need to stay in conta...

His desire for some time away from our relationship came from out of nowhere...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7178 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend of 5 months went out on a big weekend out this weekend without telling me. On Sunday he called and said he wanted a break, some space, even though I thought we'd been getting on really well lately. Now I just don't know what to do, h...

Since our split, he's changed and he's disrespectful to me. He still wants me back. Do I give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7178 days ago

26 April 2005 (?) - Four months ago, my boyfriend of over 3 years and I nearly split because he said I was too demanding. We tried to work things out but for the last for months he's a changed person. He doesn't treat me with any respect anymore and stays out all night ...

My b/f seemed happy about my pregnancy at first... then he left me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7180 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I have been dating my boyfriend for two years. The last few months were a little strained with my boyfriend doubting whether he was happy in our relationship. Two months ago I found out I was pregnant and despite seeming happy at first, my boyfrien...

The break up was my fault, and I want to leave him alone, but wish I could talk to him again!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5120 days ago

25 April 2005 (?) - I have been dating a guy for a while and we recently split up. It was my fault, I admit, and he wishes never to speak to me again. I can't stop thinking about him, though. I think I was falling in love with him. I want to respect his wishes a...

She flirts, I drink, we argue, we split. We do this again and again. Do we quit?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6278 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - Me and my partner have been together for three years off and on. We argue because she flirts with guys. She is possesive, she tries to control everything I do. I normally start drinking, as am an alcoholic. I go to mum's and then stop drinking, ...

I've decided it's time to end it with him... so how do I do it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7180 days ago

24 April 2005 (?) - I am finding it really difficult to end my 4 year relationship. I have a 3 yr old son with this bloke and he is a good dad when he puts is mind to it. The thing is together we are not a good match and today he hit me, it was a long time ago that ...

My third child is on the way, and my partner has left me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7179 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - I am 22 years old. I have 2 children and a third on the way. I have been with my partner for 7 years and he has left me. What do I do? ...

It wasn't until someone else wanted him that I realised I want him, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6233 days ago

23 April 2005 (?) - Dear agony aunt, I went out with a boy for a year and a half, then we broke up - on good terms, mind you. Then people started shit stirring and basically I got people on to him. But recently I've realised I still like him a lot. But the problem ...

We broke up but we still live in the same house. Now he's trying to make me jealous...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7043 days ago

22 April 2005 (?) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 5 weeks ago but we still live together in our house but in seperate bedrooms. The thing what I want to know is, can we make amends? He tries to make me jealous by saying things like he is going on a lads' holiday ...

My boyfriend is really confused & says he feels "stupid"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend broke up with me because he said that I am too good for him and that he is not sure if I am the one who he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Last year he was making plans for us to get married but all of a sudden changed his ...

How can I end a 20-year affair when I still care about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I have been having an affair with a married man for 20 yrs. We have a 12yr old child. His wife is materialistic, I am emotional. She knows about me and child. How do I end something when there are still feelings?...

Want to be a friend to my good mate, but I also want to date his ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7179 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - My mate has just had a break up which he found really difficult and I try to comfort him but all the time I keep thinking about how much I want to go out with his ex girlfriend. What can I do to get the girl and not lose my mate? What if I ask her ...

My wife doesn't love me any more, wants to split... but not until the kids are older...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7184 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - Hi I feel I'm going mad. On April the 9th, my wife said she doesn't love me anymore, for the second time (it happened 2 yrs before). I was drinking, smoking every night, due to fears I have. See, I had a breakdown 5 yrs ago. I can't travel far...

Do I give my ex another chance or go with the new guy who wants me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - O.K. I broke up with my boyfriend on Thursday, because he wasn't making an effort. The next day was his birthday and I wanted to take him out. He didn't want to come so I decided to still go out with his friends and my friends. His friend was real...

I treated her badly and now she wants a break... Can I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7184 days ago

20 April 2005 (?) - I found out last night that my girlfriend of 4 months wants to take a break. She told me that she doesn't love me as much as she did. I have done a lot of bad things and I have been really bad to her. I couldn't show her how much I love her. I c...

He split with me and moved overseas... He didn't even come collect his stuff!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7186 days ago

19 April 2005 (?) - I split up from my fiance after 5 years in January 05. We were so close and I know for certain there was no one else. I tried to play hard to get so I nver contacted him for 2 months. All his belongings are still at my house so I always thought ...

His depressions led to our break up, but now he's getting treatment and I miss him so much!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

17 April 2005 (?) - My boyfriend broke up with me recently, completely out of the blue. We had lived together for 3 years and been together for nearly 5 years. The main reason that he gave me is that he's been feeling very depressed and is worried about dragging m...

If I can't see where we're headed, then I don't feel like I can commit...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7189 days ago

15 April 2005 (?) - Why is it that I cannot commit to my relationship? I know that she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. We have been together ten years and are now on the brink of separating becouse I have some anxiety and worry of where I stand in...

I spend my time dreaming about the guy I could have had...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7191 days ago

13 April 2005 (?) - I'm still with my boyfriend but I still think a lot about a guy that I used to fancy in college, but I didn't get his number and now I'm regretting ever going out with my boyfriend becuase I know the other guy liked me & he hated seeing me with my ...

I try to move on with my life, but I feel like I should wait for my ex to come back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7191 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - Hello, I split up with my boyfriend of five years, a year ago and i am still deeply in love with him. He is with someone else now and has moved in with her and I am with someone else too who I care for very much but I'm not sure I am in love with ...

Would he be so cruel as to sleep with me, then dump me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7119 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - My ex and I broke up four months ago. We met up for the first time yesterday, and it was just wonderful. I have never stopped loving him, and my feelings were confirmed when we met up. It was as if we had never been apart and it felt like it used ...

He split because says he doesn't "trust" me, but I haven't done anything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7193 days ago

12 April 2005 (?) - What have I done wrong? I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. The first year of going out was great we never argued and always were together and even planned to get married in the future. But since the end of March of this year he has been...

He's afraid of committment, so he decided to break it off after 2 years. What's going on in his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - I have been in a loving relationship for 2 years now. Last September I came to London to study for 9 months. My boyfriend said that when we get back we will start making plans to get married. We are both 30yrs old and have had our hearts broken ...

Maybe he'll want me back if I change, but in the meantime I'm "not what he wants"...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6987 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - One month ago I was dumped. He told me I wasn't what he wanted anymore. We were best friends, done most things together and I know we both loved each other inside out. A couple of months ago things changed. He wanted to go out every Saturday...

Our sudden break-up has left me wondering what to do next...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7174 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - Me and my gf have been together for just under 2 years now, she is 17 and I am 20. I can honestly say I truly love her and she loves me. I was her 1st sexual partner and 1st major boyfriend. We've been very happy together but in the past month we...

Couldn't stand the verbal abuse from my girlfriend, but not sure I did the right thing breaking up...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6886 days ago

11 April 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I've just split up with my girlfriend of 18 months. She is 2 years younger than me, I'm 22. We were together for 6 months initially and we split up because she started to become verbally abusive to me after a drink. She was great so...

Next year we were due to be married, but now she's split, claiming she has "issues" to sort out...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7194 days ago

10 April 2005 (?) - My girlfriend has just dropped a bombshell, that she thinks we should split up. We were due to be married next year, I don't understand she has been pushing to get married talking about kids now she says she loves me but has 'issues' she needs to ...

Girls just don't thrill me the way they used to, not since I got dumped!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7193 days ago

9 April 2005 (?) - HI, I got dumped by someone I really liked over a year ago and I'm over it now but I don't care about any of the girls I see anymore! I've had flings with lots of girls, all of them I was attracted to but when it comes down to it I just can't com...

When things got "stale" he broke off our fairytale relationship. Now I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7141 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - Hi there. Ive recently been dumped by the boy I was with for 18 months. It was a fairy tale relationship; we never argued, we loved each other and the sex was always great. when it came to the 18 months, things got a bit stale and he ended it. My p...

Without a word of warning, she broke up with me. Now she won't tell me why!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6223 days ago

8 April 2005 (?) - I need help. My girlfriend of 17 months has said that she don't want to see me anymore out of the blue. I have asked to speak her, she has said no. I have emailed her and she has not replied. I can't eat or sleep. I'm gonna get ill. Help, I don't ...

What can I do to get over my lost love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7197 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I'm in love, and yes it is love. But he is now with somebody else. We spent ages together and he constantly hinted that he liked me. He hardly ever spoke to the girl he's with and they rushed into their relationship! I don't want to be selfish an...

I've met someone I adore... but I don't know if I should leave my partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7195 days ago

7 April 2005 (?) - I have been with my partner for 12 years and have two children, 10 and 7. But recently I have met someone else who I adore and do not want to be without. I honestly don't think I would still be with my partner if it wasnt for the children...

In September he asked me to marry him, now we're not together at all...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7201 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Hello, I recently posted a question but I am still confused. My boyfriend left me about 7 weeks ago now. He hasn't given any explanation but I'm sure there is no one else involved. His uncle died 2 years ago, a month later his dad died, 6 months l...

We agreed to be "just friends", but she's now telling me she has a blind date and I don't know how to respond...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7203 days ago

3 April 2005 (?) - Sue and I split in the first of the year. The split due in large part to an addiction problem. She stayed throughout the recovery process, only to leave (due to emotional fatigue) 9 mths later. Since then, we have rekindled a 3 month friendsh...

After we split, we agreed to be friends, but now he seems more interested than before!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7202 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - Im so confused, I want my ex back but does he still want me? I broke up with my boyfriend about 3 months ago and I still want to be with me, but im not so sure of how he feels. Basically, it was long distance so after the split I only ever saw hi...

Should I tell his new partner he's cheating with me? Will I get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7203 days ago

2 April 2005 (?) - Need advice: lived with partner for 19 years, found out he was cheating, split with him but tried to work things out. We still had sex anyway, this is now 3 years on, and up till Feb we were still having sex, although he has new partner that he ...