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writes: I found out last night that my girlfriend of 4 months wants to take a break. She told me that she doesn't love me as much as she did. I have done a lot of bad things and I have been really bad to her. I couldn't show her how much I love her. I cant lose her, I love her so much. She is the best thing that's happened to me. Can you please help me? I need to get her back but I dont want to push her away even more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2005): Yes, you can get her back! But with all people escpecially with women, you have to give them the space and time they need, if you try to hard to get them back (meaning you call all the time, write notes, etc.) then they turn farther away, and it makes it even harder. Saying that she doesnt love you as much as she did might be just a hint that she wants to date other guys, as hard as that may be for you, you have to be willing to accept that, it could be just her making sure she really does love you. Next time you talk to her about your relationship reasure her that you just want her to be happy, and if that means being with another guy for a little while then you will accept that, hopefully she will understand, and that will be a big step for you as well, without pushing her farther away.
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