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I've decided it's time to end it with him... so how do I do it?

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Question - (24 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2005)
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I am finding it really difficult to end my 4 year relationship. I have a 3 yr old son with this bloke and he is a good dad when he puts is mind to it. The thing is together we are not a good match and today he hit me, it was a long time ago that he last hit me.

I don't love him anymore and I have told him this, but he is making it really hard for me to kick him out. I am too soft, also I don't have a very big social circle which is why I find it so hard as well. How can I get strong and get him out my life?

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A reader, msmcllstr +, writes (25 April 2005):

I was also in a violent relationship that lasted for 8 years. I realised one day that I would be better off getting myself and my children out of it.

After trying several times to ask my husband to leave I decided it was best if I left instead. I had to start off with nothing again but 2 years on I'm happy and settled with my children and have a new partner, something I never thought possible.

It's a hard thing to do but sometimes it's easier than holding onto something thats no longer there.

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