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writes: Four months ago, my boyfriend of over 3 years and I nearly split because he said I was too demanding. We tried to work things out but for the last for months he's a changed person. He doesn't treat me with any respect anymore and stays out all night after drinking binges with his friends. It's not like him, and he's changed so suddenly. He says he still loves me and I know I still love him but I couldn't deal with being treated so badly so I've left our home that we lived in for a year and am staying with my parents. Do I go back? Does he want me to? help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2005): This guy simply doesn't love you enough if he is treating you this way. I don't doubt that he loves you, but you deserve more love than this. It boils down to what you want (not him). You should love yourself enough to make the best life possible for yourself, and if this means moving away from people who make you miserable, then so be it. Don't stay just because he says he loves you. If you're going to stay, stay because you really feel he loves you. Actions speak much louder than words!!!
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reader, lil-haz +, writes (27 April 2005):
 Hi, What I think here is that this man still has deep feelings for you but maybe does not want to show his emotions, as he might think you do not have the same feelings for him anymore. A way to compromise here is too keep close in-touch and have a laugh with each other. You need to stay close if you feel this way. I can't tell you wether you should go back with him, but what I will say is that, if you two have something which you think could last then why not start over, and give each other a chance to know more about you? I can see you're in a hard position here but are you sure this man is right for you? If he is dis-respectful then maybe it's time to move on.
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