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writes: I split up from my fiance after 5 years in January 05. We were so close and I know for certain there was no one else. I tried to play hard to get so I nver contacted him for 2 months. All his belongings are still at my house so I always thought he'd be back to get them one day.At the weekend I found out that he had moved to Greece to work out there for 6 months, and that he was really upset when he was leaving. I just dont know what to do, my world feels like it's fallen apart and I know that I won't see him now for a very long time. I'm really dissapointed that he never contacted me to say goodbye as I know at one point he thought the world of me.I've lost my lover and soul mate and I really don't know what to do as I have no way of contacting him.Please help x
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reader, rainbowshoes +, writes (20 April 2005):
First of all I want to say how sorry I am that your relationship did not work out. I know that this is a hard thing to do but give his belongings to a family member or friend of his to hold for him until his return. That way you won't have constant reminders of your relationship and of him in your house. Leave a number if he does not have one so if he chooses to he can contact you. It sounds to me that he was also distressed by your break up and has gone abroad to "get away". You both have a lot of issues to deal with and things to figure out. Start seeing you friends and getting your social life back on track. Remember, friends are there to listen and support you with their help you can get through this. It may take a long time and it will be hard but once you accept that he is no longer part of your life in that way you can begin to move on and find happiness. Do this for yourself. Good Luck!
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