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I spend my time dreaming about the guy I could have had...

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Question - (13 April 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2005)
A , *haz writes:

I'm still with my boyfriend but I still think a lot about a guy that I used to fancy in college, but I didn't get his number and now I'm regretting ever going out with my boyfriend becuase I know the other guy liked me & he hated seeing me with my boyfriend.

I feel like I've missed out on my chance. I see him recently with another girl, it didn't bother me much because I hoped he was happy, but I really wish I had got his number or knew where he lives.

Should I get rid of my boyfriend & hope that by chance I will bump into this other guy? Or stick with this one & just be happy with what I've got?

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A reader, REBECCA +, writes (14 April 2005):

hi

Speaking from experience i've been where you are and I split up with someone to try and get back with an ex and I didn't bump in to him!

Try and put yourself in your new b/f shoes would you want to be with someone because there is no one better?

You need to sort out your own feelings first and see if you still have feelings for this other guy, if so finish with the guy you are with and then try and find the other guy if you want to be with him!

Don't just be satisfied with 2nd best!

Take Care

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