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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

Is my boyfriend's fear of commitment normal or something we should both be concerned about?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together nearly a year. It's the deepest connection I've ever felt with someone and he feels the same. Like puzzle pieces fitting together. But my other half is scared of commitment. As he puts it, half the time he...

We broke up in November but still coming to terms with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hello everyone! So my boyfriend of 6 years ended our relationship back in november, just as we were about to move in together. We left it a few weeks then started meeting up again. But the past week he just ignored me, so I finished it. I don't d...

The ex factor. Can anyone think of anything that might help or make it better?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I have a problem and I don't know what to do about it. I've been with my boyfriend for four years now. A year before we got together he was dumped by his high school sweetheart who he was with for five years. At first he talked quite a lot about...

How do I find enjoyment in life?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3194 days ago

25 February 2016 (M) - How can I find enjoyment in life? People say find a hobby, but I don't seem to want to do anything. I feel that feeling passionate about anything at all could help me pass the time but I can't find anything remotely interesting. Every day I just ...

I want to let go of the past and move on into the future. Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

24 February 2016 (M) - As a result of coming to a better understanding of some behaviours/thought processes that have not helped me in the past, I am at at the point where I feel I am ready to make some positive changes in my life. In other words, I'm sick and tired of ...

How can I stop my family from questioning everything my husband and I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

24 February 2016 (F) - Hiya Just a little question for you all..I am 35 years old, married, own a beautiful home and have a good job. All which I achieved. When I was a teenager, I had some fun like every other teenager, went travelling etc. I tried university but d...

What do you think of men who swear in front of ladies?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - What do you think about people (especially men) who swear in the presence of ladies? (swearing not targeted at the ladies, but rather at things or situations). Having been brought up with high regard for politeness and good manners, if a ma...

What is the difference between friends and more than friends?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - My best friend and I are asexual. i live in a house with her and her dog. Where is the line drawn between friends and more? We're so close, I've never had a friend that knows me as well as she does, yet we insist on labeling ourselves as friends. ...

Do women mind being approached in the gym?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Women, do you mind if men approach you in the gym? There's two women in my gym, around my age, who I've noticed looking my way every time we're in the gym working out. Usually I have my headphones on and mind my own business, but it's kind of...

Is this worth saving?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 2 years. I have recently been under some stress at work. I have a lot on at uni. We live an hour away from each other so its difficult to just see each other - a couple hours here and there. So ...

Please help me win my dream job

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3197 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone! This is not a relationship question but more a question of advice, as everyone here as a variety of experience and comes from all walks of life. I am a qualified nurse in a job that I hate. My dream job would be to work with people...

How do I handle her confession?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hello, I've known this girl from college for a few years and she and I gradually became a little closer over time. She has a boyfriend for 4 years and I respect that and I did not want to pursue a relationship with her anyway. We were friendly an...

Are his fantasies a sign he doesn't love me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3196 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I caught my boyfriend masturbating in the shower. I asked him if he thought about me then and he honestly answered no. It hurt me quite a bit because first of all I was home and I feel like he'd rather go fantasies about other girls than be with me. ...

My 27 year old girlfriend shares a bed with her 29 year old brother. Is it a cultural thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3199 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - So my girlfriend told me that her parents won't allow us to sleep in the same room. I understood and agreed to sleep on the couch downstairs. They live in a 3 bedroom family home, so when her brother arrived that night I assumed they would sleep in ...

Is there a better way to try to date girls who'll like me, and not see me as their 'second choice'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

20 February 2016 (?) - What's the point of dating/settling down with girls who have dated/had sex with better guys before you? In high school/ college the loud fratty tall guys were getting looks/getting talked about and relationships/sex while I had to struggle for ...

Have you ever done anything on a date that caused the other person to never call again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3176 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I did. And I keep beating myself up for it. Any stories about doing something on a date (or even just in the dating process) that led to never getting called again? Please share! I will feel a lot better...

I'm bisexual, yet why do I orgasm faster with female partners than with men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3201 days ago

19 February 2016 (M) - From when i was about 14 i knew i liked men, i use to have cheeky self pleasures to gay porn and love it. As i got older i followed the 'normal' path, got a girlfriend and then came the night of losing my v, i panicked, what if i can't get it up i ...

Is it ok to meet up with an ex employee?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

18 February 2016 (M) - Hi Guys, so a lady recently left the company but before leaving she suggested that I find her on Facebook and we can go from there. Is it okay to meet up with an ex-employee?...

Is sorry ever enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I really would like your advice. I did something hurtful and rude to my friend. It was an impulsive act and I regretted it immediately. I mailed her two weeks ago to apologise. I would like to apologise in person too. Though not the best of frie...

Should I ask if he feels the same as me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3203 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I would like some advice about this guy I'm dating. We've been seeing each other about once a week, sometimes twice a week for 10 weeks. I haven't felt such a strong and genuine connection with a guy for a long time and I'm certain he feels it...

What can I do about this situation? My male friend is too controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3202 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My male friend is very controlling I think. He wants everything to be on his terms. He decides when and where we hang out. If he doesn't have time, we don't do anything and won't even try to compromise. I was having a party last week and he said...

Does my friend really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3205 days ago

15 February 2016 (F) - Sorry it's a long post, but I am really confused and need some help. A friend of mine told me last year that he loved me. I told him clearly that I felt only friendship about him. We went out later, got a bit drunk and we kissed each other. Life...

would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

14 February 2016 (F) - Guys, help me out here. I know men are visual, I've heard that many times. They like to look at the female body, my question is, would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you? and making comments, ...

How do people cope and get through the loss of a loved one ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3207 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Article How do people get through the loss of a loved one? Recently a friend of mine lost her husband to lung cancer. She has really been struggling. I suspect that she is not alone. She said that some remarks I made were a great comfort to her...

Single on St Valentine's day? So what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3205 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Single on Valentine’s Day? It’s not much fun seeing big bunches of red roses and big red heart shaped balloons being delivered and knowing that none are for you. At least this year you will not be at work to see the succession of flowers delivere...

She doesn't seem into me at all, constantly talks to her ex'es, no intimacy with me, yet talks of "our" future. What's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3206 days ago

13 February 2016 (M) - Hello, I wondered whether somebody could help me with what may seem to be a small problem, but to me is massive. I recently started going out with a girl that I have known for around 20 years. We had a couple of brief sexual encounters a few ...

10 euros? Is that really my worth? His ex wife walked away with all the luxuries and all I get is a gift for 10 euros?!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

13 February 2016 (F) - Hi guys, i just wonder how everybody here think about this situation. I have a bf. we are 8 months now in our relationship. We are not living together. Our distance is about two hours drive. But we use to see each other almost every week, we call ...

I have a foot fetish and want to suck my wife's toes. How do I tell her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

10 February 2016 (M) - Might be a weird question to some.. I have a foot fetish, I would love to suck on my wife's toes during sex but for fear of looking weird I never told her. 6yrs later we are married and I still would like to do this. But how do I bring it up with...

Can't trust my boyfriend's motives

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3213 days ago

8 February 2016 (F) - Hi! Been with my boyfriend six months and have been very happy. I'm supposed to meet his parents this summer. I was kinda hurt that he didn't wanna spend time with my family (they had asked if he'd wanna come bowling). But he said it wasn't his ...

Is this man a rogue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3211 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - Hi all. Ive just met a guy from my co worker. This guy was accompanying a family to collect something at my work place, so the guy got attracted over me but couldnt come and tell me cause i was very busy then he begged my co worker to give me his ...

Friend's wedding plans will break the bank

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3212 days ago

7 February 2016 (F) - My best friend is getting married in May this year and has asked my 5 year old daughter to be a bridesmaid. Of course my daughter is excited as this is her 1st time. We went looking for bridesmaid dresses and my friend is having to them m...

What are possible reasons why my Bf and I are having these difficulties when having sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3214 days ago

6 February 2016 (F) - Hello I have recently begun my first sexual relationship and I just need some help? I've had sex with my boyfriend 4 times now and each time he's struggled to get it in? It's not being too dry that's an issue but maybe I'm too wet? I don't know but ...

How does one encourage diversity and diverse ethnicity in volunteer hobby groups?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3215 days ago

5 February 2016 (F) - This is a very different question that normally gets posted on this site but I've often found help (or at least food for thought) from the least likely of sources so here goes..... How do you encourage ethnic diversity within an organisation whe...

How do I ask for my money?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3216 days ago

3 February 2016 (F) - I feel really stupid asking this question. I am a math tutor. I go to my pupil's homes and give private lessons. I do it on the side and they pay me in cash. My prices are reasonable (ok, on the lower side, times are hard, but that is my decision...

Can a player fall in love????

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3218 days ago

2 February 2016 (F) - Hi there,thanks for reading my post. I am talking with a guy online. met him two times. he is 10years older then me. I am 36 he is 47.I really like him. but I felt he is player. I am interested to know can a player fall in love? Like, a guy wh...

Am I being overly sensitive about how my parents handled the loan?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3219 days ago

1 February 2016 (F) - Hi, I am a 49yo professional woman with a stable spouse and a successful career. I have owned my own business now for 10 years. My husband and I have been married for 24 years and we have zero debt. Eight years ago, we had borrowed $100,000 from my ...

How could I be so dumb?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

1 February 2016 (M) - How come I was so dumb, I work hard at my job, single parent, an now my teenager, had a baby, so, I take of a baby now too, I met someone, everything was going great I thought, I treated her like women always said, they like being treated, like an ...

When someone just disappears is it your fault?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3221 days ago

1 February 2016 (M) - When you treat some one special, then they disappear, with out even a good bye, after months of pure joy, is it your fault, especially when you thought you both felt the same way...