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writes:I don't know if I want to change or should I say I'm not sure how to.I am in my late twenties and have no friends, except this one girl who obviously wants to be my friend but everytime we go out I justthink I would rather be at home watching TV.I have no interests, I basically live for work. It doesn't really bother me but everyone seems to think I am strange and keep telling me what to do, and I can see there point because I still live my folks and it's quite sad but like I said when I go out I just don't want to be there and I don't have anything to say.What's wrong with me.I am attracted to a guy at work and he is attracted me to, we have both confessed to fancying each other, we have kissed quite a few times and he says he wants to take things further because its natural, fair enough but this guy has never taken me out, he has bought me things and always makes me feel good when I am having a bad day, but has never suggested on us going out and when I did suggest going for a drink he changed the subject quite quickly, but when we are together there is such a strong attraction, what would you do?[mod note: combined two questions from same poster]
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (19 October 2009):
I wonder if you're suffering from some kind of depression. Or has something happened to you that has left you feeling very low about yourself? It seems a shame that you live for nothing but work and that you don't have any real interests. This guuy says he likes you, but perhaps he won't go out because he doesn't understand you, or he's worried that you're not interested enough in him, or you're coming across as a little unapproachable. Try talking to your friend about how she sees you, and perhaps your parents. You may not like what you hear, but it might give you an insight into why you seem to be feeling low.
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