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I'm tired of being the sweet, pretty lady. Can you help me?

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Question - (19 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A female South Africa age 41-50, *iketso writes:

Please help.im breaking down slowly inside.this whole year has been totally rough for me.my love life is just pathetic.im a beautiful lady with a beautiful heart and great sense of humor.im giving but all i receive is heartache.ive been broken so hard that im starting 2 not believe in love.im not looking for perfection.im emotionally drained.ive never experienced real love 4rm any man.it hurts coz every1 thinks i have coz of my looks and sweetnes,but im tired of being the sweet pretty lady.can u help me?

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A female reader, Diketso South Africa +, writes (19 October 2009):

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Thanx guys 4 the advice.i am a confident person by the way,hence the beautiful statement..thank u the most satindesire,it seems u get it the most.i do want the kind of relationship,marriage and friendship that u have.i will definately take ur advice.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2009):

Stay the sweet pretty lady, but really look at your confidence. You sound underconfident, so you will attract bad guys. Also, take your time getting to know men so you know what they want from you. Bad men are great at spotting women who are feeling vulnerable and using them. So focus on your confidence, focus on getting to really know a man before you do anything else. Take your time. You will find someone, but it will take time. But don't give up, it would be a terrible waste. Be confident, be approachable, be challenging, be a little hard to get so a man has to work for you. You'll find him. Good luck.

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