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I want to have longer conversations with him. How?

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Question - (19 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *unsetInMyVeins writes:

I really like this boy in one of my classes. (I'm a junior in high school.) He is very funny, very very attractive, and not to mention - NICE! He's got it all. We ever share a few common interests. We've had casual conversations before, never lasting more than two minutes, and he is part of what people would call the "popular" crowd. He is a nerd at heart, though. Also, during class, he'll give me that flirty smile and he'll make remarks at things I say and little things like that. I don't know how to read this kid! See, he technically knows I exsist, but only during school hours. Make sense? Hopefully someone has some advice on how to spur more conversations or something.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2009):

The post below has got it right. Read that. :) Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2009):

It's not very difficult, I promise. I've learned from trial and error. All you have to do is start a conversation about the common interest. Ask him about himself, guys love talking about themselves and feeling validated. Flirt a little and he'll be sure to want to continue the conversation. Just be sure to be yourself, because that's the only way to know if he really wants to talk to you or not.

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