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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Big Questions category)

Big Questions: Help and advice

I am in love but keep pushing him away because I was cheated on in the past. How can I fix this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6194 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have had issues the past few years with letting people in. I am in love right now with someone, but I keep pushing him away. It's like I don't want him to love me back. I think this is due to my past of being cheated on. How can I fix this?...

Hey everyone! What sort of compliments do women like to get? I need to know so I can charm the ladies in conversation.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - hi! i wanted to know what knid of compliments women like and can anyone give me some ideas of stuff to come up with in conversation with this girl i like?...

He is right for me in everyway but I don't want to have sex with him! Will this come in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have the most wonderful male friend who is right for me in everyway. I know he would love to take things further but for me, there is no sexual spark which is very important to me. Does it come in time or this destined to be only friends? I ...

I bought her some Valentines gifts but things didn't work out between us and now I don't know what to do with all these gifts. Any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6209 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I bought some gifts for my valentine. on the day we disagreed and I have given up on her love because it looks like she will never express her love to me. the question is what do I do with the presents. I cannot return them as the store wont accept ...

Is there life after death? Is there hell and heaven? Is there reincarnation? Do we wake-up, and find out we're all aliens?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6124 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hey this is a very wide question but hopefully itll mean i get more peoples opinions on it!! what you think happens when people die, is there life after death? my dad died recently and i cant help thinking whats happened to him so i'd like to know...

Im really worried hes a cross dresser!! and dont know how to approach him about it!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 7 months, it has been great and he is a very caring and fun guy, we fell in love and he is moving in with me next month. I was very excited about this until I one day I discovered whilst looking up an item of ...

Have I got enough best friends and is it normal ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I have to ask if the type of friendship I have is ideal. I have 5 best friends who I would go on holiday with. Apart from one of them who is a girl. After that, I have several friends who I'm good friends with and would go to their parties, but not ...

I am in love with my Boyfriend and My girlfriend! I want to keep both, What should I do!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I am 23 and had a sexual relationship with an older gay man since i was 17 when i fell in love. up till then i have always just fancied girls, and though i had the odd one night stand (girls) in the 5 years. i have always been in love and happy with ...

My ex-fiance of 3 years still keeps in contact even though she is engaged to someone else, is she just playing me ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi all, I am 39, and have been broken up with my ex-fiancee for the past 3 years. We have both kept in contact during that time, even while dating others. She is living with someone and engaged. Yet, still, she will see me, spend time at lunch, o...

I'm a male and afraid to lose my virginity, I seem to think that people who lose their virginity before marrige are not good people. Why?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I am a guy alright. But i wonder why does it discomfort me when someone is looking at me or makes eye contact, i feel shy, when they look at me I think they were probably thinking about having sex with me. That sounds absurd but i am extremely ...

I spent 6 months getting over her, then saw her again and now im back at square one! Please help!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I'm currently still undergoing the getting over the ex-gf phase. It's been 6 months now since she left me, and during these six months i've been trying really hard to get over her. I've been going to the gym everyday, going out with friends and ...

My husband cheated and we spent 18 months building bridges, but then I find her number in his wallet!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6469 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am so lost. My husband of nearly 20yrs had an affair for almost a year. He ended it when I found out and we have been building bridges for the past 18 months. Obviously the trust is very shakey thus the reason why I sometimes check his wallet. ...

Im in love with my ex ex again... he wants to make a go of it would this be wise!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hi all My ex and I are together again... we dated only for 2 months but our relationship didnt work. We started off very fine when we were dating then, but 3 weeks down the line he was emotionally shut, he withdrew from the relationship, bu...

Found my wife kissing her best friend! It bothers me, should I discuss it or ignore it!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6115 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Found my wife kissing her best friend,did'nt overreact but feel quite insecure,married for 23 yrs although I suspected that she might have done this before or gone further.Love my wife and kids,what should I do,discuss it or ignore it.It was put ...

Needing to talk to others that are in a 3 way relationship!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - I have been in a gay relationship for 18 years(since the age of 16). We are very happy and committed and loyal. 3 years ago, a younger man entered our lives and turned it upside down. We both fell in love with him and fought desperately for it not ...

Should I be worried the he refused sex, but then jerked off the next morning!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6475 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - i have a bf, we have been going out for 2.5 years now, and do have sex. just the other night, i assumed we would have sex, but we decided not to since we do it almost 4-5 time a week (!?!?) any way, that very next morning, i saw my bf jerk off.....

He's my best friends step brother and I have only met him on my space, what should happen next!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6132 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Well, heres the thing, I like this guy...alot. He's 17, im 14, he plays bass, and guitar, is a vegan, has only ever had long term relationships, and has the most amazing personality. But theres 2 things that go against him, he's my best friends step ...

Does my best mates BF like me, or am I feeling the vibe because I'm Jealous ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hi i really need help!!!! my best mate has started seeing this guy who is really cute and i feel stuff for him but he is relly confusin me as wen we are watching the tv he look at me and wen we are alone he cuddles me and the other nite he br...

Is these advice sites for real?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - NEED ASSURANCE FROM AGONY AUNTS.. I came across some material that said that some of the information or questions that are posted on sites like this (dearcupid.org) are made up so as to make them popular. Also the information displayed is not...

Should we give this is a more "official" feel of a relationship or will it make it worse!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6479 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I met someone while traveling through Australia last winter and we've kept in touch regularly through emails/MSN/text messaging. I tried to keep a pen-pal feel to the whole relationship, but lately I just really really miss him and I'm struggling to ...

Is 6th form in the UK more similar to high school, than university?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Is 6th form in the UK more similar to high school, than university? If so in what way? [Mod note to Question Poster: this is a relationship help site, please keep that in mind next time]...

I'm worried that while away hes just going to get used to being without me!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - is there anyone who reads this in the army or navy? do the guys stay faith full to there girlfriends? my fella went away 2 months ago and hes now more relaxed and getting used to been away he doesnt really call me that much any more but trys to...

Im worried about my Hymen, Can anyone help ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - Hey, ive been worried about this quite a while! slightly embarassing but im worried about my hymen. The bottom of it is quite big enough to fit a finger even two but the top of half is still there with something thick behind? is this the bone ? ...

Is it too soon to be engaged after only 2 months!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Is marriage (or engagment) too soon, if you've been in a relationship for only two months ? She is 19 and Hes's 27....

We split 2 months ago, he wasnt ready to settle down, now we are in contact again, I love him but dont want to get attached!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - me again been here before. basically i been split from my boyfriend for 2 mounths after a 2 year and a half year relationship. He wanted me to wait for him till he was ready to settle down, in the end i said i wouldnt put my life on hold for him. ...

I really love her, but want a future, I need to know which path to take!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6478 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me so I could pursue my dreams/ambitions/career/life. She tells me she still loves me but wants me to be happy. I trust and believe her and her motives. I still love her more than anything. If I left, in a perfect world, ...

I know hes bad for me, but I want him all to myself, I love him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - as i told you about the boy iv liked for years he is 18 and im 15 , he only just started ringing me i ring him all the time and he rings me all the time he always says are you gonna come and meet me, he has never really been in a relationship ...

Been dating 3 years, but he doesnt even give me money for lunch!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 3 yrs. I am at school, he does not even give me money for taxi fare's and not even for lunch but he is working. Is this right or i am greedy please help...

Will this feeling of missing her disappear ? it was only 2 weeks ago we split!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi. My ex and i broke up 2 weeks ago after a 3 year relationship. It was a mutual decision to split and we both feel we did the right thing. The problem is that i spoke to and saw her for the first time today since we split and I started to get the ...

Im confused, is he saying we can have kids or not!!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am in love with a man 16 years older. We've been living in for 3 years now.When we first got together, he said he wanted to get married and have children but every time i tell him i'm ready to start a family he thinks of some reason to put it ...

She's worried that taking on my 3 kids will be too much for her... What can I do to assure her everything will be ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Well here goes. I met this woman about one year ago and we hit it off immediately. I mean we have everything in common. It wasn't long before we fell in love. I am a 40 yr old divorced man and I have custody of my three children ages 15, 8 and ...

Im 18 and attracted to my former teacher, he said he wants to be with me, would it be ok to keep it a secret until schools out!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6449 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I asked this question on my previous question but didn't get any feedback...so I'm going to ask again. I'm 18 and a senior in HS and attracted to my former teacher (soph year). He's attracted to me as well. I was staying after school and we ended ...

How can I get my guy to stop chatting other women up!!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - hi me and my boyfriend are always argueing over stupid things but the things he dose hurt me very deeply but i dont want to loose him how do i get him to stop chatting other women up? please help me ...

Should I take the risk on him, he said he doesnt love me but is that because he has commitment issues!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6481 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I am dating a 44 year old man who is very good looking and has had the opportunity and been in numerous relationships...within 6 mths to a year at the most they end, as he has said there has always been something wrong with the girl....and i ...

My girlfriends relationship with her mum really annoys me, its so childish!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I really hate my girlfriend and her mums relationship with one another. They are far too close and irritating. Whenever Im round my gfs house I get uncomftable when her mum comes in because they are giggling and jokey and try and embarass me. ...

I want to look after my mum but can't stop thinking how horrible she was to me as a child.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Hi all, I really need some help, I had a terrible relationship with my mother when I was growing up. She constantly put me down and was often violent to me, she locked me under the stairs, but not my brothers. I suffered with asma and eczma real...

I am in a wonderful relationship. Why is my head filled with negative thoughts all the time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - well lets see, my head is filled with negative thoughts about relationships even though im in a wonderful relationship. I constantly ask myself, "what if we break up? "what if i fall inlove with someone else a need top break up? what if we get ...

Do you think a woman would be happy in a relationship that would never lead to marriage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6480 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - Do you think a woman will be happy in a relationship that will never lead to marriage? What's the pros and cons if a couple lives as a common-law vs. as a marriage couple? (kids are out of the question)...

I feel like I should have been a more "dominant" male instead of treating her as an equal...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6476 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - I've screwed up I guess, I should have taken charge early on. I should have tried to take her in hand so to speak. I guess that I'm a bit naieve to be honest in that respect. I lost my father when I was 7yrs old, so didn't have a father figure. M...

Can a relationship survive long term knowing that there is a very good chance that you will never live together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of two years was spending almost 5 nights a week at my house, he has never been married/engaged or had children but has now said that he needs to spend more time on his own, which i am ok about as he is most of the time very much ...

I don't know if he wants to get to know me or if he's actually just after one thing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I am looking for a relationship. Not a serious one just a relationship involving 2 people who are comitted to each other and have fun. I am currently getting to know this boy, but i am not sure of his intentions. He has just come out of a 2 year ...

Since the ring on my finger I feel that that I am constantly judged!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Recently the relationship im in took a turning point were we gave each other engagement rings as the relationship has been a very happy one and i thought we understood each other.Since then i have had all my negative points brought up,The fact that ...

My husbands persisting affair! It's kept a secret but what can I do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - I have decided to divorce my husband after his second affair in 5 years ( we have been together for fifteen). It is very difficult for me because we moved to a different country with our children and I have no family of my own or close friends. ...

For the agony AUNTS - I like this girl but do you think she'll be put off by a little acne?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6479 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Question for the girls: Do you care if a guy has a little bit of acne? I mean if a person always has a few pimples and when they go away briefly it looks like the skin is not smooth but a bit rough? Is it really the person's personality that...

My partner has been engaged 3 times in the past, he says he loves me but never talks about our "future." Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

27 February 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. He was engaged 3 times before. First time he was in his early-mid 20s. Second time he was was in his early 30s and last time in his mid-30s. I have never brought up marriage to him. He ...

I am quite depressed but hide it. I would love to swap my life with someone.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - I would like to swap lives with someone. I'm unhappy with the life I have, yet I know I should be happy because I've got my health, both parents still happily married, a university place at Manchester, and I'm going away travelling. Yet I have not...

Is it true that women dislike being judged for their physical appearance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Though i am pretty sure on this, but i still want to know. Is it true that women dislike being judged for their physical appearance? I have observed some of them getting conscious about covering up themselves when i look at them and try to measure ...

I lost my husband in December and don't know whether to get involved with an old flame? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6473 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - In December, my husband whom I love very much, passed away suddenly and unexpectedly... We lived in another state, and I've since relocated back to my home town, where I'm staying with my parents for a couple more weeks before I move into my new h...

Hes suddenly gone silent, and dispondent!! What can I do ? I'm really worried!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - Hi there, I’m worried about my boyf for the last few days… we’re together over a year and everything is great with us. We have a healthy relationship in every way and love spending time together, going away on w/ends and normal things like that… ...

I got told to back off by this guy, from my own girlfriend!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

26 February 2007 (M) - Hi, This is a strange one. At the weekend i went out with my girlfriend (drinking). She's a smoker and ran out of cig's, She ask some guy for a fag and sat down chatting for 30 mins to this guy while i was playing a game of poker with friends. After ...