A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Well, heres the thing, I like this guy...alot. He's 17, im 14, he plays bass, and guitar, is a vegan, has only ever had long term relationships, and has the most amazing personality. But theres 2 things that go against him, he's my best friends step brother, and ive never met him in real life, you see i met him on myspace. But we have the most amazing conversations, we have so much in common, and we tell each other everything!! Now this is the bit i dont know about, what do i do next?? Should i met up with him, should i tell him how i feel, or should i just leave it? i really dont know!! advice please!!x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): it would proberbly be a lot easier if you just told your friend that you think you fancy her friend hopefully she will just be pleased shell get to hang out with you together and plus this will proberbly get round to him then he'll know how you feel but be warned that he might be uncomfortable with the age gap and wat his friends will think!?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (28 February 2007):
 First of all you need to think hard about whether you can deal with the age gap. Guys on 17 want very different things from a relationship than a girl of 14 and you need to be self aware enough not to get yourself into a situation where you end up doing something you don't want to. If this seems okay why not ask your best friend to introduce you in real life? See how you get on in real life before you decide how you feel. Technology is a handy barrier because it gives you time to think. You need to see if you still get on in real life situations. If you do just take it easy and slowly and see where it goes.
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