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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4426 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...

Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4423 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...

My daughter is dating a man who could be her dad

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4429 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - My 34 year old daughter is getting a divorce from her husband that is 34 also. She is now dating a man that is 57 years old. Does anyone have any advice? He is almost as old as her dad...

How to figure out men in their late 50's?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - I've been seeing someone in his late 50's and I have no idea what sort of mind games he is playing. Sometimes when I tell him I miss him, he would reply my text with a smile icon. Sometimes even though he read my "I miss you" text, he wouldn't reply ...

Sweet comment from this cutie! What did it mean, though?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - I have a general inquiry about something this cutie told me. She's in her Mid-40's, slim, and is very cute. At any rate, yesterday, she told me that she enjoys having discussions with me about her stewardess job. I wonder if she’s slipped a...

Younger b/f ended relationship because of my face book friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - hi! am march 40 yrs and had a perfect relationship with a young man at 23. just 5 days ago this perfect relationship ended just because he discovered that i had a new account at fb. and i have male friends there too. we had been living-in together ...

How can I be falling for someone 40 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Is there something wrong with me? I am 21 and I believe I am falling for someone 40 years older than me! How is that possible? ...

My much older husband is so insecure now. How do I stop it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4312 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I'm married to a man almost 24 years older than me well 23 and a half years to be exact . We married last summer and since then he is gotton very insecure and I don't know why . I'm 21 and he is 44 we were together about 2 years before that , before ...

Am I wasting my time hoping he will change?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4431 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I met this man almost five years ago. At the time I was 20 and in between relationships. We went on a couple dates and agreed to keep it "low key and simple". Then I met someone that I wanted a relationship with and cut it off with him. That r...

Should I have another child or pursue a career?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I just turned 36 and my husband is 50 and we have a 6 year’s old beautiful smart son together. Our marriage is not 100% perfect but it is ok. We have some financial issues at this moment but down the road we are in a good shape. My husband has a ...

She climaxed several times yet she says there is no chemistry between us

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - I recently started going out with a woman who's quite a bit younger than me (I'm 52, she's 38). The first time we made love was in a hotel room (difficult for us to have time together at either of our houses because of our children). She orgasmed ...

How to have a guy who is much older than you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4432 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I'm 33 and my friend who we have been for morethan3 months is 59. He has been seperated for 15 years but legally has not been divorced. We like eachother alot and had sex for several times. Once I got pregnant and he helped me through. I re...

Is she trying to get my attention? Does she have a crush?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (M) - I'm 30. She's 20. We work at the same office block, but not in the same office. For many months, she's walked past me and just said hiya. But if I'm ever near her she's very shy and quiet, almost to the point where I feel like I am making her aw...

Despite his flaws I can't get my ex out of my head

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So I have a new boyfriend and he is the most amazing guy I have everrrr been with personality-wise and I really LOVE who he is, because he is caring and he supports me (even as far as going to auditions just to help me have the guts to follow my ...

I don't know if my boyfriend is the one for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I have never written in any love advice sites before, but have been enjoying reading this site, so I decided to give it a try. Thanks for reading. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months. From the beginning, I thought he was not the r...

Is his recent interest in seeing me with another woman a sign he's losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - My husband and I have been together over a year and have a great sex life. He used to be very against porn and the idea of girl on girl or threesomes. Now he looks at porn every day (even after we just had sex) and brings up wanting to see me with ...

Can my long distance relationship with a much older man really work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - Hi Dearcupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and love each other very much. We have so much fun together, whether it's going out or just enjoying one another's company. The only thing is that we are in differen...

Do we have a chance? Or could it be pride that this girl doesn't want someone younger than her, like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4434 days ago

20 September 2012 (M) - I have a crush on my best friend who is my former coworker. At work we teased one another all the time while stay remaining professional and worked very well together. Our personalities are very unique compared to most people and we happen to be ...

How should I approach my ex husband's new girlfriend about keeping in touch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - i got married when i was 19 years old to a wonderful guy i was in love with since the age of 15.My husband is 7 years older than me. He is the most loving, caring person i have ever met who spoiled me like a princess. i'm separating now because ...

Are we allowing this to move forward too quickly? My 42 year old school teacher from the past and I have just started dating. Is this a good idea or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

19 September 2012 (F) - Hey everybody my name is katie and i am 24 years old. And i am currently dating my former high school science teacher. You see 3 weeks ago i bumped into him waiting in line for coffee at starbucks. And we exchanged number as a way to catch up. And...

My 48 year old husband left me for a 24 year old woman and I'm in need of more advice

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - i will ask my question and leave it at that you all know me. im the one who was left for a 24 year old my husband 48. i want to know why he insists on hurting me with his words. i have to pick up my temporary spousal support from him. and everytim...

I'm concerned about my 45 year old boyfriend's friendship with a 22 year old French woman

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend who is 45 has a female friend who is 22, who is French, who he met 4 years ago when she was visiting England. She visits every year and they hang out, also he has been to stay with her and her parents in France. The thing is, I...

Did I push him away? 9 year age difference. How do I get things back on track? Please help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

18 September 2012 (F) - I think I pushed my "guy friend" away. About a week ago this guy that I have been friends with for 6 months finally admitted he was attracted to me. Since I've known him I have always been attracted to him and wanted to take it to the next level. A...

Should I wait for him to move back to my country, or move on with other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

17 September 2012 (F) - Hy. I met an awesome guy on the net. He s 5years older than i am. We have been exchanging texts for a year now. His parents currently live in my country but he moved to another country(continent) with his god parents because of education etc(well ...

She filed for divorce claiming I verbally abuse her, how do I save this marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - So, here goes nothing. I have never posted anything like this before but an looking for unbiased opinions. I am married to someone that I truly care deeply for and we have been in a relationship for over two years. She recently filed for divorce and ...

How can I handle this awkward situation? met on X-box. She's 22 with a baby. I'm 16

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

17 September 2012 (M) - Hell. Ok so here is my story, i met this great person on a game on xbox live, a few months ago. we talked for a little while and added each other on facebook and have talked on there. By the way im a 16 year old guy and she is 22 (not sure if this ...

I'm 21 and he's 18! I've never seen myself dating a younger guy with such a significant age gap!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

16 September 2012 (F) - So I have a bad situation. Me and this guy met at a party and we really hit it off right away. We have a lot in common, he's adorably cute and has great style. Well eventually right when I really start liking this guy, he reveals his age to me. He ...

What's in the head of a twenty-year-olds showing interest in me? I'm in my late thirties.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

16 September 2012 (M) - This is the second time in a year when a woman much younger shows interest in me - paying me compliments, buying me drinks, wanting to hang around, etc. I don't think I am that attractive physically, so this is not about wanting one-night stands. ...

Should I send him a 'goodbye' letter after he broke up with me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

13 September 2012 (F) - He broke up with me more than a week ago. We were together for one and half years, spending the first six months together and another one year long distance. He's european, I'm asian. He's 22. I'm 29. Not the easiest situation huh. He tol...

I don't understand why he would leave his amazing wife for a much younger woman? Help me understand so I can talk to him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

12 September 2012 (M) - hello aunts, never thought i would be on here. ive seen alot of people writing about age gap. im trying to understand my best friends relationship, ive known him since we were 20 years old. when he got married i was his best man, and the woman he ...

I'm 16 and my 25 year old friend hints that he wants to date me. Is there anything wrong with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - Hy. I dont know if this is a bad idea or not. Lately ive been friends with an awesome, kind ,funny an intelligent guy for 8 months. I like him so much. He s been telling me the past whole week that one day 'when the time is right' he would ...

I'm worried about my friend with her much older, possessive boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4445 days ago

11 September 2012 (F) - The situation is this. I am friends with a work colleague, and lately we have gotten a bit closer, so she has started to confide in me about her relationship. I've heard gossip before about her partner, people have mentioned that he is a great de...

I've become attached to my fiance's nephew

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

10 September 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old. My fiance, boyfriend, whatever you want to call him is 50. We are swingers, which means we're in an open relationship. now that the info is over, here's my story. I was driving home from my uncle's house one night and saw my...

Is my wife losing interest in me what is going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

9 September 2012 (M) - I'm married almost a year to my wife , I am 44 and she is 21 . For the past 3 to 4 weeks I am noticing a dramatic change in her and I'm wondering is there something wrong or is she losing interest in me or what.? For the past few weeks she has been ...

Would it be illegal or considered disgusting for me to date a former teacher?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

9 September 2012 (F) - I am 18 years old and I'm a college student now. I have a huge crush on my English teacher in secondary school. He's 20 years older than me. However, he's baby-faced and he's a real gentleman. When I was still in secondary school, we used to hav...

Two days after I posted our pictures on Facebook he deleted his account

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

8 September 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i started our relationship july17 of 2011. I was working as a nurse in a hospital in Sudan and he was a student of aeronautic engineer in a university in the same place he was still in his 4th year and now he is on his final year. ...

How do I help my mother and stepdad?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

5 September 2012 (M) - my stepdad left my mother to be with a girl 25 years younger than him. hes not rich by no means you know not a millionair, but he does makes huge bucks. he met this girl at work she worked in the office and he works as a car sales manager. they have ...

Depressed over teacher leaving school!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - i really like this teacher ever since i came in year 7. i had him for two months (i really really love him, but i never tried anything on him) and my grades went sky high and moved to a different class. i was really depressed for a few months, but ...

15 year old pupil is hitting on me - her teacher. Should I report this?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

5 September 2012 (M) - I am in a terribly difficult situation. I have been teaching for 20 years and this is the first I’ve ever had this particular problem. There is a girl in one of my classes; she is very young, 14/15 years old, a child. Now I have had students have ...

Is this younger man interested in me or am I imagining things?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4409 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - Well I am in a little dilemma. I work with this really cool, nice man (he is 32) and I am 42. I know age difference ei. well dilemma is that recently I noticed that he gives me this looks and big smiles often and always compliments me. He usually ...

Should I pack my bags and leave? He has been really depressed about his mom's passing and he is pushing me away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - Well I've asked a few question on this site I'm still a bit confused my question is should I pack my bags and leave? My bf is offering nothing to me I love him dearly but as you know he has no compassion no love nothing he has been really depresse...

Why is he not responding, and how do I get my "stuff" back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

5 September 2012 (F) - I need some advice following my decision to move on after a breakup with someone who seems to be “emotionally unavailable.” My question appears at the end of this post. Here’s the background: I dated a man for 6 months. There is a big age differen...

Is he flirting or just very friendly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

5 September 2012 (?) - I work at a position where my university hires their students to work.. Well, this 36 year old undergrad (went back to school) befriended me and he's married for about 4 years with a baby. He's extremely friendly and always asking for hugs (one time ...

My best friend's boyfriend will make him choose between us. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4452 days ago

4 September 2012 (M) - I am gay and have a bisexual best friend. He is purely a friend and we have a platonic relationship. My best friend has just got a new boyfriend. I am 40 my best friend is 31 and his new boyfriend 20. His boyfriend is very possessive and does not ...

I'm at a crossroads with these two men and need some perspective

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

3 September 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I'm in a bit of a bind. I've written before to you aunties and uncles in regards to someone in my life who was giving me mixed signals and wasn't really into me. I was sort of in denial because he was saying one thing and his actions ...

I'm seeing a younger man, I look much younger than I am but worry about what people think. Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - In need of some advice. I am 32 female and have been recently seeing a lovely wonderful man, but his only 23 and I'm not sure we can carry on because of age difference. I look about 22 and he looks about 28, so he looks older, but I constantly...

Can I get this relationship past short messages on facebook?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy at a bar on a friday night, we saw each other the following day and then again two weeks after that. Always in group settings. He is shy and so am I. We also sometimes send each other message on facebook. We have common interests and ...

I feel like my love for him died.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I had a pregnancy scare a few days ago, I told my bf and I took a test, it came out positive. But, just to be sure I made an appointment for another test. At first, my bf seemed supportive and soothed my nerves. On our way to the appointment though, ...

My second Bf ever. He's older. Do I tell him I'm a virgin? Will that discourage him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

2 September 2012 (F) - I'm in high school and my boyfriend has been out of high school for a few years. I'm still virgin but he doesn't know it. We have only been dating for about a month. We have talked about our past and he has had more experience with other girls ...