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writes:For more than 6 months now apparently all the classmates of a guy friend of mine (M) think we are together.They often say something about this to him, make remarks, especially the boys, but sometimes the girls too and a lot of them seem so sure of what they say and are convinced he's just hiding the ''truth''.When in fact we are super close, but don't like each other at all.I like one of his classmates and M likes another girl.It gets tiring hearing all the comments.There is his classmate B that was sure I like M but not the other way around, but after a while it seemed B got it that there's no feelings between us, but we were never entirely sure.This week B asked M if we are together cause he heard someone saw us walking, holding hands.We were indeed strolling together in the park minus the hands part.M explained that to B.Days later during a break, B was on his whatsapp and M asked if that's his whatsapp list.B said yes and it was scrolled down to his convo with me, at my contact picture.Out of the blue B asked M ''Does Krystal(me) look good?'' and M said ''Shes's pretty.'' He didn't want to give him any ideas.B pressed ''Would you do her?'' he always used the f word when he said that.M was shocked and avoided answering trying to ask B why is he asking this.And B concluded ''Of course you would.Otherwise you wouldn't avoid answering'' And once again M explained we are only friends and in order for B to stop pestering him he said no, to which B said ''yeah sure you wouldn't''.M said it caught his attention that B seemed pretty serious when he asked all that, not like he said that in a joking manner.He said maybe it's because B got confused, he thought it was nothing between us, but then he heard that part with us holding hands.At night when they came back from football practice they talked about various things and out of the blue B asked him ''So, will you do Krystal?'' but this time he was smiling, so he probably was joking.Do you think he's just curious about us and nothing more? And some time ago B asked M if he would put his tongue in my mouth and he said no.Then B asked if I were to put my tongue in his mouth, would he do that back to me and M said no.B was surprised and M said ''What? Am I supposed to say yes?'' and B replied with a convinced yes.
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reader, maisy1  +, writes (25 May 2014):
Well as B sounds like an adolescent of about 13 I wouldn't worry yourself with if he does/doesn't fancy you. Why would you, an 18 year old, be interested in someone who behavies like a silly kid?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm really 18.And yes it's silly and immature that most people in his class think I'm with him(M).What I'm wondering is if B could have any interest in me if he says and asks all those weird things.
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reader, maisy1 +, writes (25 May 2014):
Ive read your post several times and to be honest it doesn't make much sense, I also suspect you are much younger than your stated age on here.
Basically if your asking how to deal with rumours, I suggest you carry on as normal and forget about them. What other people think is irrelevant in this situation.
If you really are 18-21 then quite frankly you need to associate with more mature people.
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