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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello CupidWell, I was dating a girl for about 4 months and I told her that I find her attractive in person and I really like her. We were talking a lot and having lots of fun together ! It was great until I told her..Then suddenly, after two days of me telling her that I like her, she started to be distant and I confronted her and she didn't give me any proper answer ! I took it that she's not interested as she was even distant when I was meeting her so I stopped the chase, deleted her number/contacts/everything and started to move on! I actually liked her a lot so it took me some time to get over her!Now after three weeks of me not contacting her, she wrote to me, how I was doing n what I been up to lately! She even came with a sort of an excuse that she had been busy explaining why .... And she's trying to reach me more enthusiastically! I am not flirting with her any more and being to the point if we talk over the phone or text .I am not really flattered because I don't like mind games she started to play and I lost interest in her!My question is why would she reach out for me suddenly and what exactly is her plan ? Does she wants to be friends only or anything ? Or she just needs a guy to linger for her or something ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2014): Does it matter?
If the other posts "female reader anonymous" listed below are yours. Man-up and move on. Why waste time trying to figure her out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2014): http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-she-disinterested-trying-to-get-my-attention.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-am-the-one-doing-all-the-running.html
Are these post both from you as well??
If it bothers you so much just ignore her. It's obvious that she's not into you in THAT way even though you want her to be
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (5 April 2014):
 "Sounds" like a game (her game) to me.... and I would suggest that you remain out of that game. It's not worth it...
Good luck....
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