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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:For years now there is this guy who i have loved and every time i see him i love him but (theres always a but) i personally don't know him and he is older (much older) than me. I am 15 years old and he is i would say 30+...He works in this shop and every time i go past the shop or in i hope he is in working...Like the other day i went down past and he noticed me and watched me, like 30 minutes later me and a few others had gone back down and we went in to get something, as i walked in our eyes met and could not leave, i got what i needed and as i walked past him my eyes were always on his, even when i was paying for my drink (he was not at the till but standing close to it). my eyes were on him and not the lady behind the till. I just wanted to go up and kiss him. I have a receipt with his name on it that i always keep in my purse, I have a song that every time i listen to it, it reminds me of him. I don't know what to do anymore cause i think of him everyday and i dont even know the guy, it hurts as i know i will never be with him. Should i forget about him but also every time i try i cant cause i either see him or i remember him and i am just fed up with it. I just want to kiss him. Also i have made up many stories of me and him (like not sex stories just normal stories)What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): dont do it, he can get into alot of trouble if he has a sexual realtionship with you, plus would your family approve?
if you both like eatchother i suggust to wait until your 16 and if he likes you that much he will wait
but just remember you are young dont go setting your heart out on this person when their is loads of fish in the sea
hope this helps
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (1 June 2011):
 You should not do anything. You have a crush. It's hard to get past this type of thing but it will happen.
make friends your own age. You cannot have any sort of a relationship with this older man while you are under age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): Stay away, stay far away!
You are too young and trust me at 15 do not understand quite everything you will come to understand when your brain matures. Pyschologists and Doctors have studied adolescent brains and anyone under 20 does especially under 18 does not have the abilities to make good judgement - that part of the brain is not developed yet.
Try and keep safe and stick with good friends your age who have good parents.
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