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writes:How do I get over this.I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the other day, I held her beautiful face in my hands looked into her beautiful green eyes and told her I fell in love with her. In her slyness she turned to leave my office as she walked way her eyes tearing up she told me she loves me. I gently took her hand to come back into the small office closed the door and told her she did not have to turn her back on me when she told me she loves me. We stood face to face I told her again I love her, with tears in her eyes that had been welling up all morning began to fall down her beautiful face she looked at me and told me she loves me. The sweetest most wonderful feeling, we share a love together. For me it has been a slow burn. It started in school over a year ago where I first saw her: her smile, her life force, her brilliance, her gentle soulful touch on everything around her. Last summer between semesters I tried as hard as I could to run her off my mind. I motorcycled all over the south east all I could think about was sharing her company again. I said to myself God almighty please let classes start again so I could see her. Over the past few months it has turned into love. We tease each other, share thoughts about our work, listen to our issues, offer support and caring. I fell in love with this women.I'm not married I have been with a women for more than 14 years, everything has changed in those years except she is still the most physically attractive women I never thought could exist. That alone just does not work, it's never enough.This love just happened, How do I get over this? Why do I have to get over it? - She has her doctoral work in her near future, I am leaving this state to start mine in December. It keeps coming back to the age difference, I love her so deeply I will not be part of anything that stands in her way of her future and most of all she will not allow that either. What do I do with all of these feelings? Last Christmas I wanted to be with her, she had her family to be with. I left for NYC by myself to attend the Opera at the Met - trying my best to keep her off my mind. I met a young women at the Opera we spent some time together including going out to dinner. Getting to know each other I told her I had feeling for someone - tying my best to get over them. The young lady excused herself just as she left the women I am so in love with sent me a text message " are you having fun." When my dinner date came back she asked what had happen. The person she had just met was no longer present, all I could think about was how wonderful it would have been to share Christmas Eve with the one I love so deeply. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): "...I'm not married I have been with a women for more than 14 years,..." No matter what you feel for this young woman , you have a common law wife. In the end this is what is important. If you have already disinvested from your CL wife then end the relationship.
It is not fair on her to have her man lusting/longing for another woman.
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