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writes: "What would you do for me?"My boyfriend just asked me this question and it stumped me.So much so that I couldn't answer the question.Like how people say,"I'd die for you."That's what he meant.What does this mean and most important,how do I respond??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2006): What a vague question - please help us understand the context under which your bf asked the question. If you don't understand where he's coming from, then you should ask questions of him before you give an answer. The best question to ask is, "What would YOU do for ME?" If he gives an answer you might better understand what is on his mind. If he refuses to give you an answer, then you should refuse to answer it as well.
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reader, kissable100 +, writes (4 May 2006):
 i think its jus his way of tellin you he loves you soo much HE WUD DIE 4 U! like if u were in a aituation where 1 of u has 2 die! he wud without a doubt die 2 save u! not many lads wud do that so fink ure self a lil lucky.
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reader, angelinna +, writes (4 May 2006):
 I would ask him to clarify -- in other words be sure that you know what he means -- if he means what you think -- then I agree that you should be honest and just say -- that you would always be honest with him (assuming you would be) but i would be careful because it sounds like he is expecting a certain answer and that you are being tested . . . i would assure him of your feelings but let him know that you don't want to be tested . . . you know what i mean as if there is a right or wrong way to answer
so just clarify what he's looking for from you . . . is the question sexual, commitment based . . . you know get to understand what his meaning is
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (4 May 2006):
 The best way to respond is to be honest don't tell him you'll die for him if your not willing to. just tell him the truth
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (4 May 2006):
My advise is to think about it. I thought about it and I'd tell my boyfriend what I would do for him is give him all the love, respect, and loyalty that my heart and soul can give, and that I'd giev him myself, which means giving up yourself. But thats just me, think hard about what you'd do for hima nd how much you love him.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (3 May 2006):
 This is one time I would RECOMMEND you answer a question with a question!!
Turn the tables and say, "NO, what would YOU do FOR ME!"
If he won't answer then ask him how he can expect you to answer something he finds difficult as well!
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