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writes: i dont know what to do me and my boyfriend of three years broke up and have been for two months i dont want to lose him so i still talk to him and and pratically with him all the time he gets mad if i talk to other people. I ask him where we stand and he tells me he doesnt want a girlfriend but that doesnt mean he doesnt want me later. what should i do? am i just being dumb and waiting for nothing just to get hurt at the end?
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (25 July 2006):
 The person who wrote this poster i was just wondering what choice you made.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni would like to say thanks to everyone who gave me advice thanks it has given me a lot to think about
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): Live your life, do what you want, and make him chose. Don't just sit there for the rest of your life, do something.
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reader, Angelicc +, writes (4 May 2006):
I'm in a similar situation, apart from my exboyfriends says he wants to be friends and to date other people. of course i was upset but i agreed because i thro it was best to have him in my life then not at all. well alot of bulls*** been said and here i am still hanging on. so listen to me GET OUT, GET OUT NOW before its too late. move on
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): Yes to your last question. He's totally yanking your chain and keeping you as a backup in case nothing else works out. The 'I dont want a girlfriend right now' is a timeless classic. If he really wanted you he'd want to be with you now, not 'maybe later'. You sound like a smart girl and have kinda asnswered your own question. He's using you big time and is worried that you might get interested in someone else if you talk to other people. Then he has no backup. If he cared for you he wouldnt enforce possessive rules about who you can talk to. Move on girl before you become his doormat.
"am i just being dumb and waiting for nothing just to get hurt at the end?" - YES!!! Get rid of this loser now!
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