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writes: found out about 6 weeks ago that i was pregnant and my boyfriend and i are really happy about it and are keeping it. However i also recently started a new job and there is a guy here who is paying me a lot of attention and who i really fancy. He doesn't know i'm pregnant. I really like him and we have got to know each other really well over the last few weeks, and although we haven't had sex it has come close. i feel terrible for deceiving my boyfriend, especially since i am pregnant with his child. I know what i am doing is wrong but i just can't seem to help myself with this other guy. I can't tell him i'm pregnant as my work don't know yet and i'm not ready to tell them. I'm really confused about what i want - any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, lca +, writes (14 May 2006):
girl,look im the kind of girl who gets upsidedown, crazy , tickled pink to have someone show me some attention but i recomend you step back and weigh this for a minute. do you beleive this other guy can love,and provide (not just money wise)for you and your unborn? sometimes i think we run from the things we want most!make a list posotive and negotive things about both and whoever looks best for you maybe thats what should be,but don't let a smooth operator come in, destroy what you have and leave you wishing..!take time to decide but not too much, remember there is a man who obviously loves you who deserves more than lies and secret meetings w/other men.hopefully ,helpful!!!
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reader, bonym  +, writes (8 May 2006):
 What do you mean you cant help yourself. My dear this could potentially turn ugly. You have got to ignore the attention from the fella at work and concentrate on remaining fit and healthy for this pregancy. Attention comes and goes, you are pregant with your partners child, stop letting this "attention" get to your head. xXx
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reader, soletshearit +, writes (8 May 2006):
 Listen honey if there is one thing I know is that you need to make a decision...you need to decide if you want to be with your boyfriend and if you are happy with your boyfriend, if not? then leave him...you cannot stay in a relationship for a baby...it doesn't work like that.
You are in a situation where you could very easily loose both guys, you need to really think about whether this guy at work would support you and a baby...I know most guys probably wouldn't want to!
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reader, twinkle +, writes (3 May 2006):
 heya, im sorry to hear about your problem, ive always thought if you are really happy with somone then youd have no reason to want anyone else so if you do wnat sombody else then maybe your not really happy with him or it couldbe where your pregnant your hormones are all over the place, you need to sit down and think "am i really happy with my bf?" if you are only still with him because of the baby then you need to talk to him because the longer you leave it it will just get worse but if you really are happy then it could just be your hormones so you just need to controle yourself around this other guy and let him know youve got a bf and your not interested you just want to be friends xx:)
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