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writes: Hey there..im 17.i have been seein this guy for about 2 weeks now. before i got with him, he 'apparantly' had a bet with his mates that he could have me, but he denies this...He has a reputation of a player, but i find that he is really sweet and genuine..hes told me he loves me already, hes taken me out for meals, and seems to genuinley REALLY like me.However, he is moving to Austraila in a month for 8 weeks. I am already really attatched to him.Iv slept with him already!!!What shall i do?I dont know if he is just using me as a trophy girlfriend or for sex??i think im besotted already.HELP!!!
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (4 May 2006):
 Slow down. First he is going away fro a couple of months soon, and when he is on holiday he may not stay faithful. Secondly - go with your gut instinct and don't listen to *tittle-tattle*.
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reader, kissable100 +, writes (4 May 2006):
 hhmmm...tough 1. ive read a book bout this and it does say that sex does help! if hes a player he will refuse to have sex with u more than 3 times a day but if he doesnt refuse he is genuine and really likes u!! so aim for sex 4 or 3 times in a day maybe more if ure really horny but get in touch and tell me how it goes xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): Agree with the other person. No-one who tells you they love you arter two weeks is genuine. He wants sex. If he has a reputation as a player, its probably because he is one and he is wining and dining you so you are putty in his hand. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but yes it does sound like he's using you. If you knew he was a player and wanted to see if he was genuine you shouldnt have slept with him so soon, and then you would have had an answer for sure. As it goes, I would sayyou stand to get hurt. Sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): I wish I had better news for you, but if a guy was telling me he loved me after only 2 weeks there would be serious alarm bells ringing because 9 times out of 10 he is after sex. Unfortunately, you've fallen for it and slept with him. It is always better, in my opinion, to not have sex for as long as possible when you first start going out because that way you get to know him really well as a friend, which is the best basis on which to build a relationship, and if he's worth it he'll respect you far more for waiting.
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