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writes: Am i just a tease?? So loadsa guys always chat to me n stuff wen im out and im always friendly back (i hate bad manners:P)Thing is there is now soo many guys that want me and somehow think deep down that i want them, i dont want every guy i meet to feel awkward around me! What can i do?? This is especially a problem with my best guy friend...he was knda in love with me for a few years an i feel like he resents me a bit. What can i do to attract less guys?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (4 May 2006):
 sounds to me you think too much of your self and you fancy your self too much and from what i gather from the info you have given you are too attractive perhaps if you thought less of your slef and made your self invisible and less attractive and toned down a bit perhaps then
you won't attract so many guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): Why do you want to attract less? That is what I would first question. If you are saying that you have trouble maintaining appropriate boundaries, I think you would benefit from reading the book The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker. It helps women understand the appropriate messages and how to keep a respectful distance. I would be flattered though if you are attracting people, just be careful that you respect your own boundaries and simply let people know when you are not interested. Remember the song, "A Woman wears a certain look when she is on the move . . . " Be careful to pay attention to your own signals, but if you are attractive . . . enjoy it because one day you will be 80 and think back. Enjoy your femininity and just be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2006): get a bf or stick with one guy, when guys hit on you, just talk about your boyfriend. DONE
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reader, Sis6372 +, writes (3 May 2006):
You don't honey, You might think it sucks but be greatful, just be gentle and tell guys sorry, I'm just not interested.
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