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anonymous
writes: Ive got a bit of a problem Id really appreciate some help with. I split up with my wife whom I loved about a year ago, I stupidly embarked on a relationship which I hoped would work, but didnt and throughout although I got an erection during foreplay, as soon as it came to actual entry , my erection just dissapeared, I gave it a bit of time and am now in the early stages of a relationship with someone I care for very much, problem has started again. I know its psychological but does anyone have any tips to help me out (or in as the case might be). Would be grateful for any help, thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): My husband has had this problem for years. I was married before and didn't like to hurt my present husband by telling him his erections are not as hard as they should be. He can masturbate to ejaculation, but when he tries to go inside me he just loses the semi-hard erection he does have. Viagra did help. perhaps you should visit your GP and have a testosterone test as your levels may be low.
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (27 March 2006):
well yeah it is mainly psychological and you just need to start enjoying sex gain because it sounds like you're worrying and thinking about etting hard way to much. Erections never work well under pressure, remember that. But other than psychological reasons, have you tried things such as cock rings? Put it down to the base of the cock while flaccid then go through your foreplay routine or just get it hard however you choose and it should stay erect while the ring is on
hope it works out for you
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