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writes:Hi I'm a 17 year old girlThis guy used to treat me like shit and we used to fall out all the time though we both fancy each other like mad. he was into mindgames which is why he treated me like this...but he changed about a year ago and started treating me nicely, but still making it clear that he was only in it for the sex. last saturday night he texted me and asked if I wanted to come out and that he'd pick me up. I said 'I'll let you know in about 30 mins"...then I texted him 15mins later and told him to pick me up. But then he texted me and said he couldn't as he was driving into town. then he texted me and said he had gone to a restaurant instead..I kept texting him and he had switched his phone off. He then texted me and said 'I thought you weren't coming out so I went up town instead"...obvuiously, I got angry, as i'd made a big effort, dressed up etc, I ignored his last text and went home. He then texted me on tuesday night, apologising profusely and gave me another half-baked excuse: that it was someone's birthday.....Should I give him another chance? am I being too harsh?.....or was i right not to make up with him?? thanks!!
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reader, tux  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Well my question is.. Do you normally tell him that you'd let him know in 30 minutes? and if you do... how many times do you actually say yes that you would? If this happens a lot where you tell him that u'd tell him in 30 minutes and you end up saying that you don't want to.. what do you think he'd do? sit around an wait for you?
But my major concern which is bigger of an issue is the issue of sex.. is he with you for the sex or not? if he is.. leave him. My other concern is the birthday dinner party.. birthdays do not creep up on you at the last minute. Unless he was planning on taking you to it.. I have my doubts about him.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Why do you want to spend time with someone who treats you like this? Why do you want to be around someone who is only nice to you when they want to have sex with you?
Forget the excuses, he treats you badly and I wouldn't stand for it. You deserve better than this run around.
Anyone that uses people like he is using you is not worth your time. Forget him and find someone who treats you with respect.
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