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writes: im a very happy married women who fell for another mans sweetness towards me,we recently got a little out of hand and ended up having sex. i can't get it out of my head because the only man i love is my husband. i could never tell him this ever. i promised my self and god that this will never happen again how do i cope. Reply to this Question
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reader, SHORTY +, writes (27 March 2006):
i am in the same situation as you but, i told my husband and we ended up separating for 3 weeks, I thought that it was over but my husband realized that the only reason that I fell into this other guy was because he wasn't giving me what i needed. Talk to your husband about the things that you need from him, even if it is just a hug or a kiss every once in a while. My husband was always putting me down in front of other people to make himself feel better. Don't get your self in the same situation that I did. If you really love your husband forget about the other guy and work on your marriage and talk to your husband about your need and wants and also your fantasy. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): Remind yourself that you have faith in God and that your husband has faith in you. Don't decieve either of them again.
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 What a tangled web we weave... You just need to remind yourself about who you really love and each time you get a temptation that you love him and only him and that if you really loved him you won't let it happen no matter how sweet the other guy can be. For an old saying, It's better to have a bird in the hand rather then 2 in the bush. Of course, two birds would be better than one.. however you'd still have to catch them both which is what happens when another guy pours his sweetness on you. Of course, it seems great and nice at first, but in the end you do not know what you will get. It's better to have the sweets you have now rather than the promise of sweets in the future.
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