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anonymous
writes: There is this girl that I like alot, we have fooled around a bit in the past but nothing serious. At the weekend I saw her whilst I was out in the town, we hung out for a couple of hours and then later she came round to my place.She was completely wrecked and all over the place, I got her into bed so she could go to sleep. She was really drunk and kept falling out of bed, then she started kissing me and getting frisky. I didn't feel right about doing anything with her in that state so we kissed for a while and I left her to go to sleep.The next morning when she left she said she would text me but she didn't. I have been waiting to hear from her and I haven't, I don't know what to do, maybe she isn't interested in me and that's why she hasn't been in touch or maybe she's waiting for me to make the first move.I want to know where I stand but I don't want to seem desperate, what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): It may be that she is embarrassed about how drunk she got, so go ahead and contact her, if only to see if she has recovered! It'll show her that you care about her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): I think she is waiting for you to make a move. There's no reason that you would appear desperate if you're the first to contact her. And under the circumstances, she was in a vulnerable position, so you should definitely be the one to make the effort and contact her!!! Good luck.
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