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Archived questions from: March, 2005 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After we kissed and admitted how we felt about each other, he stopped reponding to my texts...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - My best friend was at school with me last year. He came back to visit me recently ... it ended up with us realising our feelings for each other and voicing them. We ended up kissing and he told me that he had fancied me for a long time. After this day out i have trie... (193 words)

Should I let her know about my attraction, even though she's married and older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6611 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I am finding I have feelings that are growing for an older female within my work place. I have worked with her for about a year now and she is 32 and I am 19. She is married with 4 kids but I have real feelings for her. I don't know if she has any feelings for me or not but ... (83 words)

My marriage lacks romance and sex, and I've just rediscovered my ex...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5328 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I have been married for only 1 and a half years and already the relationship lacks any sense or romance or love and our sex life is all but faded memory. When I was out the other night, I bumped into an ex boyfriend who was and probably still is the love of my life. We ended... (137 words)

None of the guys I'm interested in ever reciprocate. Starting to feel like I'm cursed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I'm absolutely sick of unrequited love. I can't handle it happening to me again! It's happened too many times and it's been very hard getting over it and moving on each time. I'm 27 and have only had one proper boyfriend. We weren't in love with each other, but ... (251 words)

I never get out any more.... my boyfriend acts more like my dad and thinks he owns me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6952 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I moved from my home town to be with him in his home town, and ever since I moved down, he's changed he thinks he owns me. Never lets me go out with friends and acts like my dad. Should I leave him? I have left him before but foolishl... (63 words)

Her parents think she's straight & she cheats with men, but I love her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7172 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm lesbian and in a relationship with a bisexual woman. The relationships has its ups and downs and to be honest, her being bisexual is a problem for me. My problem is that even though she loves me, I know some day she might leave me for a man as she has cheated on me wi... (161 words)

I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister... and she's keen too!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister, and I found out that she has a crush on me too; should we tell him now, or wait awhile and let it slowly slip out...thanks... (38 words)

We haven't seen each other in a year, but my feelings for him have grown

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Hello, I met a super nice guy at music camp last year. We are going back to the same place this summer and will be seeing each other for the first time in a year, since we live in different states. Over this year since the 2004 summer we've stayed in touch, on the phone, o... (215 words)

I'm so insecure and afraid that I'm going to ruin this great relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6151 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - I'm 19 years old and me and my partner have been together 18 months. At first we were all over each other and spent all our time together. On the occasions when we did go out separately we both received attention from the opposite sex but I didn't mind as my partner never ... (189 words)

Am I stupid to worry that we might not last?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7060 days ago

31 March 2005 (?) - Cupid, I have a problem. I am a 24 year old guy who is totally screwed up. Bad family problems and past relationships that have left me scared of committing and scared to let anyone come close in case I get hurt. Thing is, I am in love for the first time with the sweetest... (201 words)

My ex seems to be moving on with her life but I keep waiting for her to come back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Just want to be helped in my love life & don't know what to do now. I broke up with my girlfriend 3 months ago & seems that I can't move on and still want her back. She has been in 3 relationships so far, but me, I'm still single, thinking she is going to come ba... (96 words)

My b/f and I are so close to having sex, but I don't know why I stop him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7168 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I've been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we are very happy with each other. I live in Maidstone and he lives in Essex so we only get to see each other about once a month but despite the distance our relationship is very strong. We both think we're in love for real and talk ... (305 words)

My older guy and I are being split up by his family, but I want us to work...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7172 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship for around 8 months. I am 17 and the guy im with is a lot older, but that has never been a problem. Recently his ex and stepson have been causing trouble and it is spliting us up. I really love him, what should i do?... (52 words)

His penis is not hard enough! It's like squeezing toothpaste back into the tube...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I am an eighteen year old girl in the early stages of a relationship, all is well in all areas, including foreplay... However, when it comes to penetrative sex, my boyfriend can't enter me! It seems as though his penis is not hard enough! What am I doing wrong!? Please h... (73 words)

My partner left for London, so I've been online and chatting...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7168 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been dating my partner for 3 1/2 years but recently he up and went to London. It left me feeling really heart broken. He says he is coming back to Scotland in 1 years time but that is a long time for me to wait. I deeply love him with all my might, but now I feel lon... (112 words)

His separation has stalled half way... Do I wait or walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7168 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - My boyfriend told me he and his wife were separated. They had agreed on a financial split and she was due to move out but has changed her mind. She is 18 years older than him and now he says that he cannot expect her to move out and start again on her own, but he wants to... (76 words)

We love each other, but I'm worried about the shock of an "instant family"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7169 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Me and my girlfriend are both currently in the Marine Corps stationed in South Carolina. We have been pretty serious for about six months and she will be getting out in a few weeks and I will be out in four months. I love her and her kids very much(she has two of them, 2 ... (200 words)

I didn't even know I was gay, but now I find I might break up her marriage...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7170 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I am a 21 year woman and I am in love with another woman. I tried to keep it to myself and ignore it in hope that it might go away but it never did. I ended up breaking down and telling the other woman how I felt. It turned out that she felt the same about me. We have been see... (180 words)

Not sure now how I feel about my boyfriend and I miss that perfect feeling that we're right together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6658 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now and I love him to pieces, but I went out for a night out with him and one of my best mates who is a lad, and now I am confused on how I am feeling towards my boyfriend...! When I am near my boyfriend like kissing.... (107 words)

Due to emigrate with my husband shortly. One problem: he just beat me up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - My husband an I have been together for 12 years married for 7. We have 2 children 11 and 9. We are due to emigrate on the 29th april 05 and have just had a wonderful last holiday on our own without the kids. The problem is that he got drunk and beat me up on the last night ... (258 words)

My g/f knew for 4 years that I can't have kids, but we broke up over it just 2 weeks ago.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7104 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I have been in a relationship for 4 years. We have had our ups and downs. Two weeks ago she told me she still loved me but not the same way and wanted just friendship. I can't have kids as I've had the snip, but she is desperate for a child. She knew from the start I coul... (110 words)

Found out that my husband cheated... with my niece!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7170 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I got drunk on my birthday. My now husband got off with my niece. I cant get over it because he lied on my son's life that nothing happened and then I found out it did by a phone call between them. How do I get over it?... (48 words)

My bloke promised he wouldn't mess me about, but now he won't answer my texts or calls...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hiya, please help me. I've become friendly with a bloke named Hayd. We started flirting a lot and eventually he tried to kiss me but I refused. A couple of days after, I saw him again and realised I actually did fancy him a lot, so I gave in. He texted me the next day just ... (301 words)

Our problem is a lack of orgasms... His!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - My bf and I have been having sex for about 3 months now and the past month or so he hasn't been able to climax. We both love each other and understand each other very much and don't know why we have this problem. I have a feeling that its because our sexual routine is too dull. ... (66 words)

I feel like I'll never find anyone like the boyfriend that dumped me. Do I try to get over him, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - I've had a few boyfriends and none of them have worked. About 3 weeks ago my boyfriend finished me for one of his other mates. He told me he loved me and we had sex a few times. I really thought he was the one for me. We was so happy together. I thought it would never end. I l... (187 words)

I'm waiting for my married guy, but I'm not sure we have a future...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7173 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, I've been seeing a married man for 8 years on and off. He has a family, and loves them dearly, but doesn't love his wife, and he says he loves me to bits. I don't know if i can see a future between us, but also can't hang around for him. What do you think I should... (62 words)

Three guys are too many choices...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

30 March 2005 (?) - Hiya I have a dilemma...There are 3 guys I fancy and who fancy me back, but I do not know who to chose to go out with. Guy 1 is younger than me, which I have a serious problem with, but he treats me with respect. Guy 2 is very affectionate but seems to be a bit of a player.... (126 words)

My b/f and I want to move in together, but I'm only 16 and I don't know how to tell my mum.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Hi, Im currently in a relationship with my boyfriend and we are thinking about moving in together. The problem is, is that I work in southport and he is getting a flat in Liverpool so I can transfer. But the bigger problem is that I'm only 16 and my mum doesn't know about me... (116 words)

I want to leave him breathless with my oral-sex skills...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7161 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - How do you give an amazing blow job that will leave him breathless?... (13 words)

To avoid a fight, I lied and said she was just a friend. Was I right or wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7172 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - What can I do? I met my rival in my girlfriend's house. The rival was about to fight with me. But, I show a big understanding to him by lying to him that we are just ordinary friends, just to avoid fighting each other. What I did, was right? If yes, please advise me for f... (76 words)

When things go wrong in my ex's life, she comes to me, but I want her back for good!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7102 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Im a 28 year old male. I was with this girl for over 4 years and we broke up about 8 months ago. She has been seeing someone else. Whenever things go wrong in her life I'm the first one she comes to. I miss her so much and want us to get back together. Deep down I think sh... (94 words)

I'm interested in sex and so is he, but we just can't seem to make it work...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7169 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Myself and my boyfriend have been together for 6 weeks now. Everything is going great except for the sexual side. We dont have sex often and when we do it may not last for very long. Either I become too dry or he becomes limp. This is affecting our relationship. We have ... (121 words)

I've never asked a guy out before, but this one is gorgeous. Should I?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I have worked in a shop for the past 6 months. The most gorgeous guy I have ever met comes in and whenever we can (which isnt very often!) we will chat about everything and anything. Every time I look at him he is looking at me with a big smile, but looks away when I notice. ... (102 words)

The man I'm falling for is everything: sweet, kind, funny...and has a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5069 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid, Should I cut my losses a move along, or should i just have more faith and determination?? I've fallen head over heels in love, for the first time properly, with a friend I have made at university. I've thought I'd been in love before but meeting him has made me ... (465 words)

Another girl is extra-friendly with my boyfriend. He says he's not interested, so what's she doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7175 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I'm totally in love with my boyfriend of 10 months and he feels the same towards me. We're moving in together in 2 weeks and we couldn't be happier. There's just one thing that has annoyed me lately and that's his female friend. Well I say friend but my boyfriend said they were ... (255 words)

It seems like he should know I like him, but I'm not sure how I can tell...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7103 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - I've been in the same group of friends with this guy for the past 2 1/2 years or so. I am mainly closer to other people in the group, but lately I've been thinking that I might like him as more than a friend. We don't really have comfortable conversations; it's more like me ... (150 words)

We're breaking up due to our clash of personalities, but I'm devastated and she's already seeing someone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Please help me. I have just split up with my wife and I'm devastated. We have been married for 8 years, but we have had a very bumpy marriage. We have many times in the past, but this time it is serious. She has even started to see someone new. She said it only has just st... (161 words)

The girl who's interested in me is younger than me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6932 days ago

29 March 2005 (?) - Dear Cupid Hi, I am a 16 year old boy who lives in the UK and this girl I know who is 14 wants to go out with me. I don't know what to do, as I think people may think this is strange. Plz can you help me? cheers ... (56 words)

Our relationship changed. We don't kiss or cuddle any more and we barely talk...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Me and my daughter, aged 2 at the time, left my husband because of domestic violence. At the time I was friends with a guy I used to work with. We would telephone each other and spend time together when we could. The friendship grew stronger and stronger. After a year he left ... (215 words)

I hate the idea of a new woman in my old room, in my old house...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7150 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I am a divorced mom of 2 girls ages 14 & 10 for the past 5 years. I am currently living with someone else and have since I left my ex. My ex & I have joint custody of the kids & living time is shared between us. My ex recently started seeing someone new and I cannot stand th... (92 words)

Why would she tell me she was ill, then go out with her friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7171 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I've been with my new girlfriend for 3 months and it's been going great. I was really looking forward to seeing her on her night off but she texted me and said she was ill and had been sick. Later, when I went out for a drive I saw her in a pub car-park with her mates (they're... (116 words)

I've been single for two years and no one seems to want to ask me out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7174 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm 20 years old and have been single for nearly two years. Lately it's been geting me down. People say they fancy me but never ask me out or for my number. I'm not standoffish but I'm not easy either. Is it just most men my age just want one thing, especially when I... (77 words)

I can't talk to my mum about what to expect when I have sex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6205 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I can't talk to my mum about sex. I'm pretty sure I am going to bleed first time as I have from being fingered. If I did bleed, would it be a lot? What would I do if my mum found the blood in my bed? Please reply as soon as possible. many thanks xx... (57 words)

He's so insecure because he can't make me climax every single time...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7176 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - I don't orgasm every single time I have sex. This has never been a problem with other lovers, but has become a major problem with my current boyfriend. He is very insecure and when it comes to not pleasuring me he gets really upset. What I can't make him understand is that ... (443 words)

The sexual fantasy we both dreamt about almost happened, but my wife changed her mind!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7177 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Well this is a long story and I am so confused about it I thought I would get some advise out there before I go get some counselling. My wife and I have been married for over 10 years now. She and I have always had a very intense sexual relationship. Once we got married ... (801 words)

My boyfriend is splitting hairs about his cheating. Do I give him a second chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

28 March 2005 (?) - Hi, my boyfriend thought that I was going to finish wih him so he cheated on me. I did finish wih him but I told him how I felt. Ever since, he has been trying to get back with me. I decided to give him one last chance, when I found out that he got together wih my friend. ... (104 words)

I'm afraid of trying to manage a long-distance relationship for a year, until my partner gets back home...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7177 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Subject: Long Distance Relationship Hi, James, my long term boyfriend, was offered a one year contract job on the other side of the world before we got together, and it would start this October. He accepted but is now unsure about taking it up because it would mean us bein... (269 words)

Although he says he loves me, he only has time for me as a last resort. Is he playing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7081 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - I am divorced and I have been dating this guy for the last four months. I have a son that is 20 months old. I thought everything was going great and he broke up with me, but still wanted to "see" me, and we are having the same relationship that we have always had- like ... (121 words)

Sex is always on my time and my terms... and not very often. Have I fallen out of love with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7178 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - Hi, I was just wondering if you could give me some advice. I have been with my partner for nearly 10 years and we don't have sex very often. The thought of him coming near me turns me off. If I do have sex it's on my time and my terms. Do you think this means I don't love him... (64 words)

It feels like we're only together so that he doesn't upset me, and it's weird...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7176 days ago

27 March 2005 (?) - I've been seeing this boy for over a month and lately he has been different, like distant. I worry too much and it gets on his nerves, as he has a lot on his mind and I totally understand and I want to be there for him. Then today, out of nowhere, he said that he thinks t... (114 words)