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writes: I got drunk on my birthday. My now husband got off with my niece. I cant get over it because he lied on my son's life that nothing happened and then I found out it did by a phone call between them. How do I get over it?
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reader, Stefani82 +, writes (4 April 2005):
Well cheating is horrible to go though, easpecially with family. I can't imagine the hurt you are going though right now. You need to tell your husband how much hurt he has caused you and he has a child that he is setting an example for. He needs to realize that the child and his future is depending the both of you. Girl, let it all out if you have to cry. I was never married but I have been cheated on and its devastating to a woman's heart. You need to sit down and think if you can forgive him - of course you will never forget - but look inside your heart. If you really love him the both of you can make it though this. Time can heal the heart slowly and with love all things are possible. Maybe try some counselling. And maybe your husband can realize that he doesn't need to be selfish, the well being of his child and his wife comes first mentally and physically. I hope that this may be help to you, even if it's just a little bit. You have to take it one day at a time.
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