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writes: I can't talk to my mum about sex. I'm pretty sure I am going to bleed first time as I have from being fingered. If I did bleed, would it be a lot? What would I do if my mum found the blood in my bed? Please reply as soon as possible. many thanks xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2007): yes you will bleed the 1st time you have sex, but it will hardly be any the first time i bled it was spotted meaning i went to the bathroom right after, because you should always go to the bathroom after having sex, but when i went i had a couple of spots and thats it
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2005): I think that you should just tell your mother that it's about that time that ya'll need to talk about protection. If you're truthful with her she will understand. I'm not saying that she won't be a little upset but you will be building a wall of trust.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2005): You won't bleed that much but if you're worried, why don't you put a dark coloured towel on the bed first? x
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (29 March 2005):
 Hi there! first off, I hope you are 16 or over and are going to be using some form of contraceptive! Everyone is different, some of us bleed some of us don't. The reason that we bleed is due to the Hymen being broken which normally occurs when a female first has sexual intercourse. Dependant on how old you are you may have already lost you hymen, this is possible by normal use of tampax once a month for your periods. So it is hard to say what will happen, it wouldn't be lots of blood no, just like some spotting. You may have already lost your hymen when you bled previously. Some woman don't notice, and some will just feel a little sore, the key is to have a paitent partner, and to relax and to take your time. Have fun, but do take care.
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