New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login245057 questions, 1084625 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

His penis is not hard enough! It's like squeezing toothpaste back into the tube...

Tagged as: Sex, Teenage<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (30 March 2005) 4 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2010)
A , anonymous writes:

Hi, I am an eighteen year old girl in the early stages of a relationship, all is well in all areas, including foreplay... However, when it comes to penetrative sex, my boyfriend can't enter me!

It seems as though his penis is not hard enough! What am I doing wrong!? Please help, this may sound trivial but is starting to effect other areas of the relationship...

Yours,

Frustrated girl.

View related questions: foreplay

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010):

did you ask if he had E.D?

<-- Rate this answer

A male reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (24 July 2010):

olderthandirt agony aunta cock ring might work but if it dosen't, there's always the good old hand jobfor him and a lot of face time for you. penrtration sex is highly overrated and cancause pregnancy. You seem too young to start a family.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2005):

Hi Frustrated,

You mentioned that you are in the early stages of your relationship which leads me to wonder if your boy is just nervous. As your relationship progresses and you feel more comfortable with one another this should hopefully correct itself.

You said you are 18 but did not mention his age so I'm assuming that he is also young and pharmaceuticals such as viagra shouldn't be necessary, but if the problem persists maybe he should consult his physician.

One tip you could maybe try is visit a sex shop and purchase what is known as a "cock ring". These are small rubber rings that can be placed around the base of his penis and testicles to prevent blood from draining out of the penis. The result should be longer lasting, harder erections.

Hope things work out.

J

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2005):

Perhaps your boyfriend is not quite ready to have sex with you.

There is a lot of pressure on a lad to perform and although he'd like to have sex with you, he may feel like he's being judged harshly or compared.

You are probably best not to pressure him, but encourage him gently to be open. Perhaps he would explain how he feels, and you could comfort him and this would help.

If you aren't sensitive and don't have good intentions then you don't deserve to have sex with him.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

New answers are blocked to this question

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.12496889999602!