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writes: Hiya I have a dilemma...There are 3 guys I fancy and who fancy me back, but I do not know who to chose to go out with. Guy 1 is younger than me, which I have a serious problem with, but he treats me with respect. Guy 2 is very affectionate but seems to be a bit of a player. My friends say he is serious about us but he never shows that to me. Guy 3 is friendly, sweet and romantic but I do not know him that well and he seems a bit clingy. Is there anyone who would like to give advice to me as I have no idea what I should do.
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reader, Soul sister +, writes (30 March 2005):
Take it from someone who was in the exact same shoes a couple of weeks ago. I had 3 guys in the same age range as yours who fancied me and I fancied them. I just followed my heart and imagined who I would be most happiest with, who I could trust and who would treat me with respect. One of the guys fitted all of those categories and so I chose them and I am being treated with respect, I'm happy and I trust him 100%. I feel I chose the right guy because I followed my heart.Whoever you decide to go for, I wish you luck. Just one more bit of advice: stay friends with the others and if it doesn't work out with your first choice give someone else a chance. Good luck.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (30 March 2005):
 The "right guy" is the guy who can make you laugh. Good looks fade, money can go out the window, romance can turn sour... but a good sense of humour is forever.Having said that, why only limit yourself to guys from work? It's bound to cause some difficulties in your workplace if you pick one over the others, and speaking as someone who has had a workplace romance go bust, what happens if you break up? Could you still face him every day, even if things turned nasty? Even if things had become sexual in the meantime?Give lots of sincere thought to the "worst-case" scenario, if going out with someone you work with doesn't pan out.Good luck.
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