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writes: Hi, my boyfriend thought that I was going to finish wih him so he cheated on me. I did finish wih him but I told him how I felt. Ever since, he has been trying to get back with me. I decided to give him one last chance, when I found out that he got together wih my friend. He says that we weren't together when it happened (which is true) and that he still deserves his 2nd chance. Am I being played for a fool? confused, carrie
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (29 March 2005):
 The question you need to ask here is why did you split up in the first place? Was it because you thought he was capable of cheating, is there already a problem between the two of you ? If it is true that he cheated when you were not together, is it that he found solace in this girl because you had broken up? Maybe he was hurt confused and didn't know what to do and sought affection elsewhere? You need to discuss what happened, before either of you makes the step to getting back together. Discuss what went wrong in the first place and make that a focal point... Do you actually want to give him a second chance? Is there anything worth saving? Ask yourself these questions before deciding on getting back together, find out what it is you both want. If you are having doubts, then you need space to adjust to reflect and to see how you truly feel. Just because he wants you back doesn't mean you have to go back. Be certain that a relationship with this guy is what you want. Think of you and what makes you happy. Above all else, put yourself first!Take care x
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