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writes: Hi, I have a huge crush on my best friend's sister, and I found out that she has a crush on me too; should we tell him now, or wait awhile and let it slowly slip out...thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): My problem is i have a crush on both my best friend {which are brothers} little sister. there are 3 years between us. but they want us to go out but im not so sure of her mom.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008): hey guys umm i have a similar problem and im quite sure my mate will be ok with it other than laughing in my face when i tell him, but the problem is her parents are over protective and will not be pleased with me and it could end up that i wouldn't be able to hang with my friend whilst she was there, so i really have no idea what to do. It could work fine cause her parents trust me and all but i really can't see them being happy about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2007): Idk..maybe tell him or wait till u think is rite.ilike someone too but not sure if he likes me.i need answers.maybe u can help me on that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007): Hey man,
I am going through the same thing right now. Im not really sure what to tell you but the way I look at it, depends on how close you and your friend is. In my case he is like an older brother to me he is 19 and i am 17 and his older sis is 20. So we got some adversaries that we have to work around anyway.. But if he is as close to you as me and my friend are then he shouldnt care he should trust you enough and know you enough to know that you will be good to his sis and treat her right. The only problem is when there is a relationship there is always gonna be arguments and if you are in the wrong you cant run to your best friend and talk about it cause that is his sister and he will most likely take her side and if a problem is too big it could mean the end to your relationship with his sister and loose a best friends its a tough situation that should be thought about and handled maturely but over all I think you should go for it if you really really care about her
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): I know what your dealing with, man. I have a crush on one of my best friend's little sister (Who is 13 and i just turned 15 so no real big difference in age). I know she has one for me too. I asked him how he felt about it and he said just wait a little longer(till she matures a bit more) and i could go for it. It's the parents I'm worried about. I'm afraid of them more than anything and my friend is a blackbelt so that's saying something. Anyway, just make sure you guys are as good friends as you think and if is a good friend and he trusts you, then you shouldn't have a problem
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2007): It is your choice it isn't really a big deal when you think about it your friend will probley not take it the wrong way just tell your friend your into her and she is into you and maybe even tell your friend with his sister so it wont seem as much pressure i also have a problem similar i have a crush on my brothers friend and dont no what to do but just act normal and maybe hang out all together sometimes
Hope This Helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2006): hi,
i'm going through a similiar problem at the moment. except, i'm the girl and i'm pretty sure my little brother's best mate like me. But he is young.... like really young.... well not that young he is 13 and i'm 16, which is really annoying because he is soooooooo flirty. It really seems to bother my brother. So i would ask your mate for permission first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2006): hey, i went through this and it was the worst experience of my life! trust me dude, I really don't know what the above posts are talking about, but i would highly suggest not to do it! i talked to my friend, the brother, and he seemed rather cold, but finally gave me permission. what ensued was the worst time of my life. I was put in the hospital and had to get reconstructive plastic surgery. i really pissed him off and we never even had sex! i was so nice to her. please, just don't do it, there are so many other fish in the sea.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2006): yea man they are all right i made the misstake of wating dont that is not what you want open up with her let her know every thing it dont matter if she brakes your heart well it dose but it wasnt because of you i am deeling with the same thing as you but it is a little deeper i love her with every inch of my sole and i know she likes me but it will just take time i still need to grow up some more i am 17 and she is 20 it seems to be worthless but i dont care any more i and fighting for love good luck!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2005): Trust me man, come out with it. I developed a crush of my best friend's little sister (shes 14 so chill) we tried to hide it from him and it wasnt pretty but we worked it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2005): I would have to say let it out slowly, you know, a few hints here and there. Other friends start "joking" about the idea. See how the reaction is after some of that then go from there. I've used this method on more than one occasion, and if you're patient, and careful, it does take some of the shock out of the situation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2005): I've found that the best way it to just tell him. I just went through this, I was fortunate enough that this is my friend's older sister. (they get more upset w/ little sisters). Anyway, if it is your best friend, just tell him. The hard part is talking with her parents after they know! Hopefully your friend and his parents are cool.
Cheers
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reader, chatorama +, writes (31 March 2005):
Sit him down and just talk to him about your crush. Ask him if he would mind. He will feel like he can't say no unless he doesn't trust you.Once you have his blessing ...GO FOR IT!Good luck xxx
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reader, Soul sister +, writes (31 March 2005):
Hi, You should tell him how you feel for his sister. If he really is your mate he won't mind. It might be a shock at first but when it settles in he will understand.Good luck! Not that you'll need it. It'll be fine!
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