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writes: I'm totally in love with my boyfriend of 10 months and he feels the same towards me. We're moving in together in 2 weeks and we couldn't be happier. There's just one thing that has annoyed me lately and that's his female friend. Well I say friend but my boyfriend said they were never really that close and that he can't remember any great times they've had, they just hung out a few times back in college. She's been texting and phoning him recently - even asking for my number, and sent him a birthday package with love heart sellotape on it. In the card she was telling him how great he is and that she misses him and can't wait to spend time with him again. The gifts she sent him were only stupid little things but things he'd have some sort of interest in and I thought is it because she's secretly trying to say "look at how well I know your boyfriend" When she's on the phone to him she's always asking how we are and always saying that we have to come and visit her (she's at Uni 25 miles away)I really don't care about visiting her and neither does my boyfriend. I don't understand what she's doing and it makes me upset whenever she texts or phones him. Is she just suddenly being extra friendly towards him or am I some sort of threat for whatever reason? Does anyone have any advice?
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reader, Soul sister +, writes (30 March 2005):
Okay listen up. I have the best advice possible:your boyfriend obviously doesn't care about this girl but you do. You need to talk to your boyfriend seriously about it and you need to trust him. If you can't trust your boyfriend then there's no point having one. This girl is trying to make you jealous and it's obviously working. Don't let it bother you or she'll feel like she's getting somewhere with her hard grafting. When you show her how serious you are about your boyfriend she'll get bored because she's getting nowhere. Good luck
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reader, lindsey +, writes (30 March 2005):
I know how you feel I sat back and watched my boyfriend with my niece get very close and she was all into him I kept on asking him are you interested in her. NO is all i got he swore he didnt like her that way.I couldnt get rid of her always round sleeping over weekends. However on my birthday we all went out and I got really drunk went to bed and they got off with each other I only found out after asking over 100 times after hearing them talk on the phone. That was even after he swore on our sons life he didnt they did so i dont trust any friendly females and even family as i lurnt the hard way when your happy someone always tries to make you unhappy.
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