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writes: Hello basicly I was seeing this girl in the summer around 4-5 months ago I realy liked her even though I only saw her for a short period of time . She has a boyfriend now of 4-5 months but i have kept in contact with her and on more than one occasion told her i still like her, basicly last weekend she agreed to meet me and we ended up kissisng but since then she has not responded when I try to contact her. What should I do and what is she thinking?.
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reader, Mirabell +, writes (5 December 2005):
 You are in the prime position of a man trying to get a girl with a boyfriend. You have gotten her to cheat, which is not only because of you, but also because of him. (no happy woman cheats). Your job now is to play aloof. She will have to make a decision now that she has cheated. She will either reaffirm her affection for him, and then there is nothing you can do. The aloof job will work here as you won't look like a fool trying to get her when she doesn't want you. (that means she will always wonder about you and that you two very well may hook up in the future--maybe even the day she dumps this guy, however down the road that is.)Otherwise, if she doesn't decide that she really needs to be with him, she will start taking steps to get rid of him. You being aloof will make the whole process easier on her and make you appear quite the self-assured stallion she wants.Keep your eyes and your ears open. But make sure no one else can tell. Men will step all over each other when a girl becomes single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): I dont think its wise to try and persue a girl that is obviously confused about what she wants.. also do you want to persue a girl that can meet you and kiss you when she already has someone else.. to me that would tell me that her loyalty isnt quite right towards her boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): give it time
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2005): i understand that you really like this girl but i feel that she is in confusion about her feelings.u said she has a boyfriend that means she still has some commitment there. i would advise u to leave her alone. since u have contacted her and probably left messages if she really share in your feeling she will call u back. but would have u meanwhile to enjoy urself go out and have un with friends dont dwell on this girl much
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