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writes: I am 19 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We've known each other for almost 3 years and been dating for almost 2 months...(yeah not long...I know) I guess I'm wondering if I am just bitchy or if these are logical problems...I moved in with him due to a lease expire..so I am living with him and another guy. He just recently lost his job because he broke up with the boss's daughter(his ex-girlfriend) It's been 3 weeks and he had this job offer paying $3 more an hour..he gave him all the information and they were running his info. It's been almost a week and he thinks that he just needs to wait for them to call because he already has the job...I think if he wants the job he should call and make an effort...anyways it's causing us to fight because his parents give him a little money and he blows it on stuff like wireless X-box controllers....am I over reacting? Either way I need some advice on how to handle these situations..someone please reply. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): you dont need to "handle" him... he is a big boy
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (6 December 2005):
 I think you should just pay what you need to pay for and not worry about him, its his money and he can spend it how he wants, if his going to blow it on toys then thats fine but its his own fault if he gets himself into money problems, just look after yourself and what ever you do dont start giving him money. I do agree his wasting money, and i also get this vibe that he would rather sit arund all day playing games instead of going out and getting a job, instead of spending money on new toys he could have gone an spent it on maybe buying a nice suite to wear for job interview or he could have contributed it to some bills, maybe you could suggest this to him. good luck
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