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writes: hi, my problem starts when i met this guy in a chatroom which i frequent often, however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change, and we started to connect, of course he told me these feelings will get more serious,which it did. everything was going well,and he said he wanted me and my color enticed him, we made plans to meet, as the tension/passion was too much, however he did tell me he's possessive and i saw it as i couldn't talk to anyone in chatroom anymore, however i still like the guy and want him, until lately i heard somethings in the chatroom about him and some other women, he denies completely saying i'm the only one, no one know of our relationship, only my best friend,i got so mad that i left a message for him telling him he's a liar and a master at it too,we recently were arguing a lot,and he made me feel guilty,even when i did nothing wrong,we both agreed there are issues to discuss,if we were together,but now i'm not sure, i honestly think he's playing around but i've known him for a few mths now and i really love him, please advise me as soon as possibleps he is 15 yrs older than i,plz help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2005): Hun, just drop this guy. It's obvious that there is something very "off" about this character and I suggest you just stay out of the chatrooms, he ventures into. Either that or change your user name. When people sense that they are "connecting" with someone, the excitement of being able to explore a romantic possibility without having to reveal one's true identity or too much private information becomes very tempting. I think he was tempted and you don't know him as well as you thought. Let this one go. From now on when you go into a chatroom, you must be cautious and decide for yourself, as to the degree of time, energy, emotion, risk, and fulfillment that is derived from a virtual romance or relationship. Remember, real life romance is way better! Take Care and stay smart when you venture into those chatrooms.
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