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writes: Hi there,I met a guy 4 months ago. I've known him for a while, I'm having a nice time with him. We live about 2 and a half hours away from each other, but we try to meet at weekends. In the beginning, I was quite excited, however I did kiss a couple of guys within the first month..as nothing was established with us. I was totally relaxed with him from the beginning, which is a good thing, however its difficult trying to get to know someone who is living so far away. He is a nice guy, very genuine, but incredibly shy in intimacy. He still is very consciuous of himself when we are going to bed, and refuses to undress in front of me. Recently, an x, broke up with his girfriend..he emailed me and I find myself thinking alot about him. It didn't work out with the x before, it wasn't the right time for me.But I must admit, there is still a huge atttraction between us. We had a good friendship and an amazing sex life. I was completely attracted to him, and I guess I still am. Since I found out my x was single, I find it hard to even kiss my current boyfriend. The passion doesn't seem to be there. Maybe its just a passing faze. I liked my current boyfriend, and I know its hard to meet nice guys. But, am I wasting my time and his? I really enjoy being with him, but if the passion isn't there now, do you think it will ever be?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2005): yep, u will break up wid ur current bf n go back wid ur ex neway...whether its....1) as cheatingor2) months l8rits best 2 end it earlier den 2 break his heart more
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reader, Phyrekiss +, writes (6 December 2005):
 Some people say an ex is an ex for a reason. Remember why you broke up. Is the issue still there? If not, then I say go for it, rekindling old love is always good for the heart. But if the issue that was there when you broke up is still an issue, its probably still going to be an issue if you get back together with him. The fact that you are losing feelings for your current boyfriend is probably just due to the fact that you think about your ex a lot. I had this happen to me before, and the minute I started thinking about my ex, its like I started making up reasons and looking for the smallest things wrong with my current relationship. In the end, I wound up single and miserable because I never could decide what I wanted. So the important thing is, be sure what you do is truely what you want.
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