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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have a male friend who is married and we get to talk together once a week usually. Sometimes, though, when i see him during the week at school, (he's a teacher), he will completely ignore me. I'm not sure why he does this, but when we do chat, which is usually on an afternoon after school,he is more than happy and friendly, and i get the impression that he may even have a little crush on me. I really enjoy our friendship and it hurts me when he pretends he doesnt know me. I'm not sure how to approach the subject. I don't want any awkwardness between us as i am really fond of him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): I have met his wife several times. They have even been over to dinner once, but i must say, it was really hard trying to talk with her. I got the impression that she was only there to make him happy. I am polite and friendly towards her, but it seems an effort for her to talk to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): Getting together alone with a married man friend once a week is wrong, and if you were on the other end of this, you would probably not like it either. Why not instead, suggest ALL of you get together and get to know his WIFE instead of just the two of you.
If you have a strictly platonic relationship with this male friend, then there will be no reason for anyone to ignore anyone or have a strained friendship...something is not right with all of this.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (31 May 2011):
if he has a crush on you and you like his attention
then i believe you have entered the unwated zone
because usually sch kind of friendship may end to an unwated affair or atleast an emotional affair that would affect and hert every one including you
why dont you befriend his wife and find you self a BF
and even though avoid being alone with him
Good Luck
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