There is a bad atmosphere between me and my boyfriend's sister. Should I do anything?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together nearly a year and we got pregnant pretty fast (after 4 months) but we are happy about it and have kept the baby which is due next month. Anyway everyone was fine about it except his sister. She started telling ...
A. 5 July 2009: Thanks for the reply...
She definitely is jealous. She tries to make people feel sorry for her, and takes her jealousy out on me and slags me off to her mom so her mom and me wont bond aswell. She is a spoilt brat really, at the age of 24 she live... (read in full...)
I'm getting married and she wants to be my secret love affair!
Q. first and foremost, i am straight,engaged to a beautiful man whom i have shared my life with for the past 4 years. 2 years ago, i met this really attractive woman at a party, she is my friend's cousin and because she is working in the same line and ...
A. 5 July 2009: Firstly take some responsibility for the affair! Stop saying things like 'I dont know how she did it' 'She melted me' 'she screwed me up'... You didnt have to go to her hotel room, you didnt have to sleep with her. And just because you feel an ... (read in full...)
I think my cousin remembers but is afraid to admit it!
Q. Well... Where to start? My cousin and I had sexual encounters when we were young. We gave each other back rubs or as we called it fratching. I stole 2 pairs of her panties in high school. Then was caught with them. 3 times I felt and fingered her ...
A. 3 July 2009: you were young then... forget about it. She is obviously embarrassed and tbh it is pretty embarrassing. It may be legal for cousins to sleep together but its very frowned upon!
Just drop the subject.
HTH... (read in full...)
Will wearing tight jeans affect my unborn child?
Q. I'm 8 weeks pregnent and like wearing tight jeans,is this gonna affect my baby?...
A. 3 July 2009: I would say that depends on how tight they are! If they're cutting off circulation below the waist so much you go numb then yes.. but Im sure this isnt the case so its fine. Your baby is still very small at 8 weeks so it wont be hurt. Try wearing ... (read in full...)
Any baby name ideas that go well with Gerrard?
Q. Hey everyone, I know you lot are a clever bunch so thinking you could help us out here :) i've been thinking of baby names, and would like to use my late grandfathers name as a middle name, which is Gerrard, but I want it to go with manson, which'll ...
A. 2 July 2009: We need to know what the last name will be, important when thinking about initials and how it sounds.... (read in full...)
I KNOW he's had oral with another guy! If I ask him and he denies it I'll be gutted.
Q. My boyfriend borrowed my laptop, when I got it back I found he has been watching gay and Bi porn. He also left facebook chat open and there it was right in front of me.... a conversation with an old male friend which stated they had had oral sex in ...
A. 1 July 2009: Ask him straight out. If he denies it then tell him you saw the conversation. Ask him why he feels the need to deny it.
He might be embarassed about it. But tell him you need to know what his sexuality truly is because you need to know where you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship.
Q. My boyfriend is going on dating websites looking for a discreet relationship. I confronted him about it and he took down the page saying that he was just stressed about us and it was stupid. But then two weeks later I find another one! We live ...
A. 1 July 2009: well you might not like this but you shouldnt have to block the site from the computer to stop your boyfriend going on it. He plain and simple shouldnt be doing it. Whether he has met anyone of them or not he has cast out a line, wanting someone to ... (read in full...)
Should he have to pay these bills?
Q. My boyfriend moved in with some friends on a 12 month contract not long before we met. After 4 months of living with them, (though he didnt really as this period was over summer break from uni so he was at home) he moved in with me but still paid ...
A. 1 July 2009: Its for utility bills like gas and electric... which tbh are really extortionate as they leave the heating on all the time and stuff. He fulfilled his duties of paying his share of the rent, and the bills up until this final request for money we ... (read in full...)
Wife doesn't want me to go down on her any more
Q. I really loved cunnilingus, in fact I enjoyed it more than receiving oral sex, and for many years it was an important part of our lovemaking, but my wife went off it a long time ago. She thinks she's "dirty" down there. I haven't even seen her ...
A. 1 July 2009: Have you had any children in the past few years? Childbirth can change how a woman looks and feels about herself down there... But Women can get strange ideas about their bodies and convince themselves they are hideous for no reason. Tell her ... (read in full...)
Do certain foods affect how a guy tastes?
Q. my friend told me that eating pineapple makes a guys cum taste good, but idk is that true?? is it true that drinking dairy products makes you have bad tasting cum??... is it really needed for a girl to have big boobs to be hot? MOD NOTE: These q...
A. 30 June 2009: Firstly about the cum...
Makes it taste better:
*Pineapple (and fruit in general)
*asparagus
*drining plenty of water
Makes it taste bad:
*Smoking
*drinking too much
*drugs (including some pharmacuetical drugs like paracetemol)
... (read in full...)
Decisions decisions... go back with the ex or stay with my current boyfriend?
Q. Ok so i have a difficult decision, go back to my ex or stay with my current bf? Ive been with this guy for about 2 weeks and hes really sweet and all but now my ex has told me he wants me back and i want him so bad now. Last time we spilt up because ...
A. 26 June 2009: Not to cound patronizing, but you are very young.
You shouldnt be with either of these guys. You should leave the guy you're with now as you obviously dont 'love' him that much if you are now pining over your ex... and 2 weeks isnt really a seri... (read in full...)
She's really pissed off at me! Was my joke a bit harsh?
Q. Kay my friend is going to sound like a skank but please dont trash her cause I will report you!! Well my friend decided to cheat on her boyfriend for some reason with some random guy she met at a party. They had sex without using anything. She th...
A. 26 June 2009: As a pregnant woman myself Id say yes it was abit harsh.
Apart from what you said being quite disrespectful to the unborn child (a mini person to be) Its not really the time for jokes.
She is obviously really upset and confused about what to do an... (read in full...)
I want to do something for my teacher... but what?
Q. I need help people!!! I'm in love with my special needs teacher, this has been going on for a while now. And I just graduated from high school, She is soooo incredibly sexy! And so nice to me. When we first met we didn't get along very well, but ...
A. 25 June 2009: Firstly congratulations on graduating!
Now down to buisness... Are you hoping to persue a sexual kind of relationship with your teacher? Im not sure this would be a very good idea.
There is a big age gap, but more importantly she was your tea... (read in full...)
I find it difficult to show pleasure when we have sex!
Q. Hey guys When I'm having sex/any foreplay I find it really difficult to show that I'm feeling pleasure from what he's doing. I feel really really awkward especially if he's watching me. I usually don't show it even if I feel pleasure. I have no ...
A. 25 June 2009: You are obviously just still abit shy thats all. Just remember that he is REALLY enjoying what you are doing an guys love seeing sexy stuff happening as they are turned on by the visual more than women.
The longer you stay together and the clos... (read in full...)
How can we make sex more pleasurable?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having sex for over 7 months quite a number of times and I have never reached an orgasm and feel limited pleasure. When I do feel pleasure my boyfriend says he wants me to try and let out noises because he says it would ...
A. 25 June 2009: Try it you on top. You need to get clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm an its easiest to do this you on top with lots of contact between your groin area and his pubic bone... try to kind of grind on him rather than bounce up and down! Sorry if ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test came back negative but I'm still late, what else could be the reason behind this?
Q. hey im a week late for my period and i took a pregnancy test yesterday and it came back negative my boyfriend and i are always careful and responsible and we havnt had any problems with our contraception im starting to get worried now but sure...
A. 25 June 2009: There are lots of reasons you coul be late. Obviously pregnancy would be the first suspicion. Sometimes, if you arent 100% sure of your cycle you could be testing too soon and may be getting a false negative, but as you havent had any problems with ... (read in full...)
Online guy now wants to meet me and I'm afraid because of my weight!
Q. I met this guy on a dating website, we exchanged pictures, emails etc its still early days but he wants to meet up for a drink the only problem is hes a personal trainer....and well im a curvy girl who doesnt exercise and doesn really watch what i ...
A. 25 June 2009: I know exactly how you feel. Iv done the online dating thing too! And i was the exact same size as you (Before I got pregnant that is) No guy I ever met had a problem with my wieght, an Iv met some physically fit men, one was a marine and he certa... (read in full...)
I'm too you for sex but he says no-one will know. What to do?
Q. hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...
A. 24 June 2009: Definitely dont do it. You said yourself that you dont really think he likes you. And especially if people will look down on you and judge you for it, its not worth doing.
You are still young, you should wait a good few years and meet the man you ... (read in full...)
When will my periods return to normal after I stop taking the pill?
Q. Hello, this isn't really a relationship question (although you could say that birth control is part of a relationship) I know you aren't doctors, but anyone with experiences it would be great if you could put them on here...anyway to the point, I ...
A. 22 June 2009: Hi, I was on microgynon for a year or so and then came off it and it took a month or two for my periods to return to normal. You have a relief bleed after taking your pill (after your week break) And then it takes 4-8 weeks usually for you to get y... (read in full...)
How should I handle seeing my ex-boyfriend again, he will be visiting me soon?
Q. Help My boyfriend is coming around on friday for his car tax that arrived, we broke up six months ago after a 11 years he left me for another women. he never stopped texting me since he left and the texts have got much heavier over the last two ...
A. 22 June 2009: You shouldnt be trying to win back a man who left you. If he really wants to make it work with you he is the one who has to lay his cards on the table and BEG you to forgive him and try again. So first of all forget thinking that. Just look your... (read in full...)
Is my ex toying with my emotions?
Q. I broke up with my partner of 5years in January 2009. We have a 3yr old daughter together. Our relationship was good to begin with but within the first year it had begun to show major cracks. He was constantly out at the pub or arranging to meet up ...
A. 22 June 2009: He might still have feelings for you and be starting to realise what he is missing now... Or it could just be sex..I cant really comment here as I dont know what is going on in his head. All I will say is that you should both definitely work ... (read in full...)
I need help to try and forget about a guy.
Q. I need help to try and forget about a guy. Hes come into my life on and off for the last 5.5 years, and its always the same, hes really nice, we have a couple of dates then we sleep together and then he cools off and then i don't hear from him for ...
A. 14 June 2009: Its obvious that your feelings for him are alot stronger than his are for you. Im sorry to say that it sounds like hes just using you for some casual sex and fun.
You are never going to be happy in this situation, and unfortunately your life will... (read in full...)
A love saga... please help!
Q. I started dating this guy casually. We werent exclusive but despite neither one of us wanting to be in a relationship, we became close. He told me he loved me. 7 months in I find out he is living with a girl who has just had his baby!!! Apparent...
A. 14 June 2009: You need to move on and forget this man who sounds like abit of a user to me.
Nobody was ever going to be fully happy in this situation, not him, her or you. Hes using you as an emotional crux and his babys mom for housing, and it sounds like some... (read in full...)
I "know" I'm gay but I don't want to go out with a gay guy, I only seem to like straight guys!
Q. Never Thought of asking this on here before but it's now or never, Why do I "not" like gay guys? I think of them and I think to myself never in my life would I go after that, but here's the thing... I'm gay!!! And in the past I've only ever liked ...
A. 14 June 2009: Maybe you just dont like the 'camp' acting gay guys, you're more attracted to straight acting gay guys. They are out there, but it can be confusing as you might pass them over thinking they're straight!
Everyone has different types, just beca... (read in full...)
How is being in love different from lust/desire?
Q. Hello, I recently backed out of an affair with a married woman at work ( you might have seen the post, and thanks to all those that helped )I was wondering something? towards the end there i couldnt stop thinking about her, really strong feelings. ...
A. 14 June 2009: It sounds like you were 'infatuated' with her. Infatuation is where you have strong feelings for someone, but they are based more on sex, desire and fantasy.
Being in love is far more deep. It lasts longer and is based more on emotions, your love... (read in full...)
Did I make the right decision by saying lets not be friends?
Q. Yeah, so I like this girl and she claims she likes me but we were gonna try the whole just friends thing for some unknown reason. We've been friends for a while now, we see each other once every blue moon. She said I was her best friend. We're ...
A. 14 June 2009: She is clearly making no effort to hang out with you or maintain any kind of relationship so I think you're wasting your time here.
Its not even a relationship, yet she makes so little effort with your friendship that you can never hope to take it a... (read in full...)
Finally meeting her but a friend is coming along too!
Q. A brief background before my question: I had recently been talking to a girl (initially via e-mails, then IMs and texts, and phone calls) and we had really hit it off. I never get my hopes up with these sorts of things because my luck doesn't seem ...
A. 14 June 2009: I wouldnt read too much into her bringing a friend along, shes just playing it safe. Us girls have to look after ourselves and even though Im sure you're a great guy, you never really know who you're meeting off the internet.
I would say buy her ... (read in full...)
Found my boyfriends fake vagina..what should I do?
Q. I've been dating my bf for almost 3 years now and I found a fake vagina in my boyfriend's closet during in the middle of our first 1 1/2 year together. I found out that he bought it 3 days before my birthday! I was so mad that we got into a huge ...
A. 14 June 2009: i think you are worrying about this far too much. If he doesnt use the fake vagina he'll probably just use his hand instead anyway... are you going to chop off his hand?
Theres nothing wrong with masturbation, its different to sex, im sure he stil... (read in full...)
Do I just expect too much from him?
Q. Ok....Here goes. I've been married for about 3 1/2 years to a man from Africa (...thats right, Africa) I love him very much and try to show him this in different ways. But he on the other hand, has never...ever been able to show me that he really ...
A. 2 June 2009: Its a difficult situation to be in, but I dont think its too much to ask to want to feel appreciated by your husband. Sorry in advance for the generalisation... But men are usually less perceptive about emotional issues than women whether they are ... (read in full...)
My wife is having an affair with her boss!
Q. I just found out my wife is having an affair with her boss - I have the evidence. She does not know that I know, how can I stop it? He is married with kids, my wife and I have 3 children help?...
A. 26 May 2009: The only way you can make this stop and try to reconcile with your wife is to tell her you know about it.
But confronting her wont guarantee her finishing the affair and coming back to you, she may choose to leave you. But you have to confront... (read in full...)
She wants to be single! I want her to realize she wants me!
Q. I was with this girl for 7 months and we had been discussing marriage. All of the sudden she changes and blows me off for about a week. Next thing I know she says she likes another guy she has hung out with like 3 times but never done anything with. ...
A. 26 May 2009: You cant force anyone to have feelings for you or to realise they want to be with you. If it was this easy, there would be someone bottling up the solution and selling it and millions of hearts would be unbroken.
But unfortunately its not possible... (read in full...)
Does he actually care about me if he is ok with me having other boyfriends?
Q. My boyfriend and I don't live in the same city. He says he is completely in love with me, but he doesn't do anything about us moving together to share a relationship. He is actually in the position to do that, to create a circumstance for me moving ...
A. 26 May 2009: Hmm this does sound rather suspect. Most men are quite possessive (not excessively) about their girlfriends, its only natural, so the idea of sharing a woman they profess to love with another man would horrify most men.
Unless they didnt really love... (read in full...)
Bad reaction from my family about our relationship, what do I do now?
Q. I am 20 years old.I am in love with my GF who is 34 years old.She is divorced and not having any child. Her husband was impotant hence she didnt have sex before.She loves me lot and she is very much caring for me too.I am from middle class brahmin ...
A. 26 May 2009: Ok firstly it could be 2 things your family have a problem with, her age and that shes been married before.
Your family have high expectations for you and perhaps in their eyes this woman doesnt meet their ideal image of a wife for you. They may ... (read in full...)
I don't know what he is playing at!
Q. about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm so much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me cos i ...
A. 26 May 2009: He just wanted to use you for sex. Plain and simple.
Maybe its a good thing you got out of this relationship because he sounds like a dishonest person, he was obviously willing to cheat on his gf with you, he was testing the water to see how you ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to think that love is the only thing that makes life worth living?
Q. After having been alive for 29 years and having been in a few ended relationships, is it foolish and wrong of me to still think and feel that love is the only thing that makes life truly worth living? I was single for more than 5 years between my...
A. 26 May 2009: I completely agree with you! The only time iv ever felt content being single was for the first few months after I escaped a bad relationship with someone id been with for 4 years. But I soon got tired of going to bed alone and not having that really ... (read in full...)
I'm always looking for faults!
Q. hi, i think there is something wrong with me. Whenever I meet girls or when a girl is interested in me I always find, or maybe look for faults with them. its doing my head in because i wouldnt mind getting into a relationship, but wen ever i s...
A. 25 May 2009: Theres nothing wrong with being abit fussy, its important to be with someone you really want to be with, not have to look over things that bother you all the time
but I think perhaps you are abit scared to commit at the moment, and you finding 'fau... (read in full...)
Kiss Me dot com?
Q. My boyfriend is 50, a widower from his second marriage. I'm 48, never married. We met through an online dating service, matching 22 of 22 categories. We have been going out for over a month. We have a great time together. I feel as though he is ...
A. 25 May 2009: I think the best thing to do is to ask him about his online activities. It may be scary but tell him that you would like to persue your relationship exclusively and see what he says. You're both too old to play games Id say! And it perfectly ... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I need more without sounding like a jerk?
Q. I have a much higher sex drive than my bf and I struggle all the time with our level of intimacy. I know I should talk to him about it but I am worried it will make him unenthusiastic as he is making more of an effort, plus he has been a but ...
A. 25 May 2009: If he is going through some tough times lately then maybe you should let him get past this before you put this extra strain on him.
Personally (as a pregnant woman) i know how hard it is when you cant keep up with your partners sexual appetite. You ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose a friend or hurt my boyfriend
Q. hi i hope someone can help or advise. a guy i work with has recently been flirting and making comments that imply he likes me. last week i was at work at the start of my night shift. during the day i had been upset by something my boyfriend had ...
A. 25 May 2009: Well you've said you dont want to hurt your boyfriend so dont do anything!
Do you even like this guy? Dont take his flirting as anything too seriously, he is not necessarily the love of your life because he thinks you have a nice smile. the fact... (read in full...)
Should I go for the ladies' man?
Q. Should I go for the ladies' man? Me and my friend are really close. We almost kissed- the whole 80-20 thing, but I didn't lean in. He's a player, he's cheated on every girlfriend he's ever had. We're compatible and we both know it, but...
A. 26 January 2009: I think he needs to prove that he would be really committed to you before you even consider becoming involved with him. Alot of men 'play around' when theyre young and this is ok aslong as everyone involved is aware. But cheating, no matter what age ... (read in full...)
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