Should I continue to date this guy even though his bisexuality turns me off?
Q. Hi, i have a boyfriend and he is bi sexual and i really don't like dating bi sexual guys. But I really do like him. Should I continue to date him??...
A. 22 April 2011: well obviously only you can truly answer that for youself. but if i were you, i would haul ass. in my opinion, bisexual tendencies are usually just a stepping stone to gayness. coming from someone who "used to be bi" when i was 20, i know how it is. ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong in asking my bf to stop while we were close to having sex?
Q. I have a problem. im 14 and in year 10. my boyfriends 15 and in year 11. we hang out alot and recently i have been going to his house more like in his room.My mum is out of town on a business trip in china and his mum and dad are on their 7th ...
A. 22 April 2011: sweetheart, you did absolutely NOTHING wrong. you respect yourself. that's a wonderful thing. know your boundries when it comes to messing around with boys. and if any guy you're ever with doesn't respect those boundries, you need to end that ... (read in full...)
She asks me for help, for advice at all hours of the day and night...and then finally when I ask her out she says she just likes me as a friend!!!
Q. OK I had this friend, a girl, who I was interested in, right. And she probably knew it, I mean how could she not since I went outta my way to help her. Now she would call me for advice, for help when she was in trouble. And I would always help her...
A. 22 April 2011: i don't necessarily think it was wrong of her at all. she probably assumed you knew the two of you were just friends and therefore, thought nothing of calling and asking you for advice. believe it or not, this is a normal friendship for women. men ... (read in full...)
Guy I fooled around with from work has not responded. How do I act now?
Q. I fooled around with a guy from work one night that I like, I waited a week to see if he'd text me but he didn't. I saw him at work again and we barely talked but had some small talk. Earlier I texted him casually but he hasn't replied. He seemed in ...
A. 22 April 2011: if you didn't contact him for a whole week after the incident and only texted him that one time afterwards, it sounds to me like you don't sound desperate at all. so i wouldn't worry too much about that. you can still hold your head high. but if he ... (read in full...)
Married lover says he can't move because of his kids. Do I walk?
Q. l have being seing a married guy for nearly a year who lives 400 miles away and who still sleeps with his wife but they dont have sex we talk every day and text all the time . We have met up four times and slept together on two occasions x he says ...
A. 22 April 2011: married men/women very rarely leave their wives/husbands for their lovers because they have their entire lives set up with them. and to leave them would be leaving their comfort zone as well as would cause them to take a huge financial hit, and ... (read in full...)
G/f gives me bj's just to make me happy
Q. Hello, i have half a problem. Basically my girlfriend didn't give bj's much because she didnt like them. I wanted to boost this number so i read tips on how to make your girlfriend feel more good about giving bj's, and not pressuring her and stuff. ...
A. 22 April 2011: if she doesn't like giving blow jobs, she shouldn't feel obligated to give you blow jobs. respect her. sounds pretty selfish. i would never want my partner doing something to me that i knew she didn't enjoy. period. ... (read in full...)
"Is she crazy, or am I? OR both?"
Q. My girlfriend (ily) broke up with me last week because I finally leveled with her about sexual relationships I had when she and I weren’t together. One of which occurred before ily and I had ever met. When we first began dating she heard I had a ...
A. 5 April 2011: that is an incredible double-standard and very unfair to you. if i'm understanding this correctly, there was no point at which you slept with anyone else while you were together, or even at any point left her for another girl? you slept with women ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on my best female friend?
Q. I'm 13 years of age. And I got this kind of problem. I really like this girl (best friend, let's name her meg not really her name tho lol) so I like meg. I've known her for around about 6 years and I want to just hold her close to me you know. So ...
A. 5 April 2011: i actually have to respectfully disagree with the above advice about being too young to know your sexuality. my experience was pratically the same as yours, except i was 15, only two years age difference. i had this female friend who i would hold ... (read in full...)
I'm fifteen and I really want a baby!
Q. I am fifteen and I want a baby so bad!! I know I'm insane because I'm still a kid myself but I just want to have something that's truly mine. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and we both love each other and want to be together ...
A. 5 April 2011: not trying to offend you, but in all sincerity, nobody has a clue what they truly want when they're 15. hell, most people don't know what they want when they're 30+. Do yourself a favor and get a puppy if you want something that's truly yours. ... (read in full...)
Been with my b/f for 5 years but have now fallen for my best friend!
Q. I am a 20 year old female. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 5 years and I love him, he might be the one. My problem? My best friend is a girl and I have fallen for her. I never considered myself bi until now. What do I do? I asked my ...
A. 5 April 2011: that's a really tough situation. a lot of girls go though this when they hit your age. it's pretty common, so you're not alone. i think you've done the right thing. you asked for a break to sort your feelings out. you're not cheating on him, and not ... (read in full...)
How do I move on from a relationship that left me feeling so bad?
Q. I just ended a two year relationship. It wasn't what I wanted in my heart, but I was being treated very unfairly and I felt I had no choice in the matter. It was really unhealthy and filled with so many problems and heart ache. I've tried to end it ...
A. 2 April 2011: haha i used my pronouns (or whatever that is) incorrectly. this article is only pertaining to one individual not multiple. my fault.... (read in full...)
Did I do the wrong thing in this relationship and is that why we broke up? Is it Karma?
Q. Here's my situation. My ex, (and it was a long distance relationship), and I have now been broken up for over 6 months now. We were together for almost a year, and the entire experience has been difficult to say the least. It wasn't a typical brea...
A. 2 April 2011: i have to completely agree with honestman. you have no bad karma from all this. you had nothing but genuine intentions with this woman and it sounded like you did nothing but treat her well. and it is true. once a woman has moved on and is over a ... (read in full...)
My guy loves to give me some love down there. Does that make him a freak?
Q. In discussing how much he loves going down on me, he said: "That's when I take in how beautiful you are" What did he mean by that? Is this dude a freak?...
A. 2 April 2011: wow. so he loves going down on you. what a problem to have. most women would pay to have a guy like that.... (read in full...)
I do love my boyfriend. Is it cheating when I stop to talk to other boys?
Q. i am 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. i know i love him sooo much but whenever i meet a new guy, or talk to any other guys, i feel like cheating. i never have cheated before and i dont think i ever will but ...
A. 2 April 2011: you're young. that's pretty normal. it's confusing because you're at an age where you're mature enough and old enough to feel and experience real love, yet not quite old enough to have made enough mistakes and had enough life experience to be able ... (read in full...)
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