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I am a 28 year old female. I have had a few relationships in life, some of which ended badly. I am a virgin*. I can not have children so I have adopted many furry children. I was an advice columnist for my High School Paper and for the College circular while I attended college. I have never gotten paid to give advice nor would I take payment. I simply like to try and help others where I can. I really dislike people that judge others before getting to know them . I am currently single. I own my home with my mother and live in the west wing of our two story house. I do not drive (If you knew the way vehicles were made you would not trust them either). I cook, clean, draw, paint, and sell artwork. I am always looking for more friends as I feel you can never have too many...

*Many people have different opinions on the work Virgin. Some feel if a woman has had oral or anal sex they are no longer considered a virgin. Since every persons opinion is that of their own I classify myself as being a vaginal virgin!

Nothing below the belt - My belt not his!

Q.   I am a 28 year old female and I am a virgin (Vaginally and Anally), Although I have given a few (2 to count them) blowjobs I have never had the desire to have full intercourse and when the option has come up I would start to shake or even cry and ...

A.   28 March 2013: To k_c100, daletom, JustHelpinAgain, & anonymous. First. Thank You so much for taking the time to talk with me about my issues. I have sent up an appointment to see a psychologist next week. She said she will see me for the first initial session ... (read in full...)

Nothing below the belt - My belt not his!

Q.   I am a 28 year old female and I am a virgin (Vaginally and Anally), Although I have given a few (2 to count them) blowjobs I have never had the desire to have full intercourse and when the option has come up I would start to shake or even cry and ...

A.   26 March 2013: Dear k_c100, Thank You so much for your honest and sweet response. It is nice to hear from someone that does not think of me as a loser so to speak. There is a place in town where I live that will see clients for the first session free. I am going ... (read in full...)

Do you think the man I'm cheating on my husband is in love with me?

Q.   I've been having sex with him for three months. I'm married, he's single.I fell hard for him and he knows it. Despite knowing my feelings, he still wanted to meet me and have contact with me. He told me he'll never become attached to a married ...

A.   23 March 2013: Dear star_1977 Have you spoken to your husband? Not about the affair but about your relationship with him? Have you spoken to the man you love about possible starting a long term relationship? If you are unhappy it is not fair to you or your husb... (read in full...)

Do you think the man I'm cheating on my husband is in love with me?

Q.   I've been having sex with him for three months. I'm married, he's single.I fell hard for him and he knows it. Despite knowing my feelings, he still wanted to meet me and have contact with me. He told me he'll never become attached to a married ...

A.   22 March 2013: Dear star_1977, I have found that there are six different kinds of affairs. I think it may be easier if we can define which you would fall into and go from there. The "It's-Only-Lust" Affair. The most common, it's mostly about sex. It can... (read in full...)

Is my old sex buddy trying to make it official?

Q.   My old sex buddy and i saw each other today , it's been a while since we've seen each other , but he messaged me on Facebook than we texted and he said if i would ever be his girl , and i replied if he would be faithful than yeah . Than he said he'd ...

A.   21 March 2013: I would have to say that you are past "Letting it go" because you have already made contact with him and have texted him. If he is going to call you then I suggest having a real heart to heart conversation with him. Ask him how he feels about being ... (read in full...)

I like one of my brother's friends/room mates. Should I act on it?

Q.   I like one of my brother's friends. Problem is he's not only one of my brother's very close friends, they are also roommates, and it complicated everything. When I first met him, he texted me daily, he was always calling me cute and things like ...

A.   21 March 2013: Hi, Sending a text to a guy is not a problem (No matter how long it has been). You can make it short and simple and just text something like "Hey, I just wanted to say Hi and see how you were doing. Hope all is well." See if that sparks an interest. ... (read in full...)

I'd like a strictly FWB situation, he say's he doesn't want to hurt me. He said he wants to have sex, but doesn't want to hurt me. What does he want?

Q.   I started talking to this boy I like who is in one of my university classes. I want to be FWB for now as we are both about to start a new program that is going to last almost two years and will be very busy for a real relationship. I'd love to be ...

A.   21 March 2013: One Night Stand, Booty Call, Fuck Buddies, Friends with Benefits, Boyfriend/Girlfriend... These are only a few basic relationship types. Many of these types have different names associated with them. However, the name or the description is not of ... (read in full...)

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