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How do I communicate with my family who doesn't listen to me?

Q.   This kinda harps on but I want you to know the entire story The main question is How to I communicate with my family that doesn't want to listen to me. I,m sick of being treated like crap in my own house. I have 3 older sisters 28, 25 and 21 an...

A.   7 August 2011: I think if being at home is as bad as you say then moving out will probably be a good idea but this wont resolve your feelings towards your 2 sister and your mum. Try telling your mum that you feel left out and that you resent having to slave abou... (read in full...)

How do I communicate with my family who doesn't listen to me?

Q.   This kinda harps on but I want you to know the entire story The main question is How to I communicate with my family that doesn't want to listen to me. I,m sick of being treated like crap in my own house. I have 3 older sisters 28, 25 and 21 an...

A.   7 August 2011: I think if being at home is as bad as you say then moving out will probably be a good idea but this wont resolve your feelings towards your 2 sister and your mum. Try telling your mum that you feel left out and that you resent having to slave abou... (read in full...)

I am the Real 40 Year-Old Virgin

Q.   I am a 41 year-old virgin, suffering from social anxiety and isolation disorders and I feel like less of a man and human being because of my total lack of intimacy. How can one regain their sense of self dignity and live a more fulfilling life?...

A.   17 July 2011: This sounds like your struggling with your self esteem and you need to do somthing to help with this! I think that before you look for a woman you need to go and find some intrests that will give you chances to meet people and build freinshi... (read in full...)

How do I tell him or make it known I don't want to be with him and that friendship is all I want?

Q.   Hello, I discovered a lad over a trusted website where people of my sexual orientation socialize. A lad message me and I liked his pictures and he seemed an amazing person. I am not over my ex boyfriend sadly even though we broke up 7 months...

A.   17 July 2011: I think if you make it clear to him that although you find him a great person but just not in that way he will understand. If he doesnt then you will have to tell him that you feel that it is not appropriate to hang around together because you dont ... (read in full...)

My husband wont end his affair

Q.   Hi, i was hoping someone could advise me on my heartbreaking marriage. 3 years ago i found out my husband was having an affair, he swore he would give her up but he never did. Throught the 3 years ive found upto 30 secret phones - i bin them but...

A.   30 May 2011: Because you husband got this woman pregnant you should be allowed a annulment! They can be hard to obtain but its worth a go! There are solicitors that specialise in them... (read in full...)

Boyfriend spends all of his money on or for his mom. There's none left for me!

Q.   I love my boyfriend but I'm so very sick of hearing sob stories he is always broke. He lives with his mom, pays all the bills, and also just gives money. I admire someone who can help their mom so much...but when it comes time for me, his finances ...

A.   30 May 2011: ok this guy is not going to suddenly going to change! you need forget about the money issues and ask yourself why he wont go anywhere with you. and as for the chld you have if he wont take any type of active role he is not worth keeping, and you ... (read in full...)

What's the problem here: Her or Me?

Q.   I'm a guy, and there is a girl I met semi-recently and developed strong romantic feelings for. We've know each other about 4 mos, we've hung out, partied, we talk on Facebook, we text and we talk. She knows i like her as more than just a friend. She ...

A.   29 May 2011: This sounds like hell, i think you need to re explain yourself to her! You cant expect her to feel the same but you could consider trying carry on seeing her and then maybe you will grow on her but dont rely on this as it may never happne and you ... (read in full...)

He lied to me in the beginning of our relationship and I still can't trust him 2 years later

Q.   My bf once messed me around a bit by meeting up with his [stunning] ex-girlfriend for coffee and lying to me about it, saying he hadn't. I also found pictures of her on his computer, saved after we had started dating. This was 2 years ago. We had a ...

A.   29 May 2011: This sounds like a difficult sittuation. I think all women have moment sof jelousy but it should bot happnen regularly and ruin your relationship! He has not helped you by lying! I think that you should perhaps sit down and talk to him, and tell him ... (read in full...)

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

Q.   So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...

A.   29 May 2011: I did the same thing when i was younger and ended up telling him the truth! he was kinda chuffed that he was my first and im gld i did tell him as he went to a lot of trouble to make it memorable! Be honest its always the best way... (read in full...)

I need a solution. I'm having an affair with my sister-in-law and don't know how to stop.

Q.   So here it goes. I am a married man and have a beautiful loving and caring wife and six months old son too. She loves me a lot and usually we talk over phone for hours in the night before going to bed (Since from last three months I am out of town). ...

A.   29 May 2011: Congatulations when your wife finds out she will hate her sister forever well done, she now has no family to rely on! ... (read in full...)

What happened to my sweet girl? Cant she see that I love her?

Q.   Ok this is for the girls but if you lads know I'd like to hear you to. So say you got 2 girls. Girl A's a super bitch that don't chase a lad and don't let him treat her like crap and Girl B's a sweet rosebud who chase after a lad and keep being ...

A.   24 March 2011: All roses have thorns, im a sweet girl i dont chase a man but i let them know i care if i do, i have learnt that all i get is bullys and i have had enough and dont take any crap! The thing is if you squeez a rose to hard its gonna hurt! Never co... (read in full...)

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